This girl has been the most difficult to game. I feel like she gives me just enough to know that she's interested but won't budge after that. Usually I'll either get IOI's or not, and move on. This one, not the case.

Few things: I got her number at a bar she worked at, she is married (but I think only to avoid deportation), she has told me I remind her of her ex who she still isn't over, and she has flaked on me twice. I have not seen her in months but she still texts me.

I'm trying my hardest to avoid "text buddy" phase but having trouble.

She just texted me last night:

HB9: "What the hel are you doing?"
I waited til the morning and said this:
Me: "Eh, you don't really need to know what I was doing. Just that I was interrupted by some psycho chick. I think she's ___(HB9's ethnicity)___"
HB9: "Hahaha. How's it feel to settle for second best?"

She's clearly something... but I need to change my approach. I want to hang with her, close the deal, and she makes it difficult/impossible. I know I can get her. I just need to know how to arrange a hang out.

I'll also add that I am thinking about just not texting her back.

Have you tried going sexual with your texting to build up some tension.

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"All that we are is the result of what we have thought. The mind is everything. What we think, we become."
Guatama Buddha

Women tend to do this things when they think they are hot shit....you gotta understand that dozens of guys are hitting on her everyday especially at the place she is working at...she is just trying to filter out which guy is mostly useful in her life ....women make you do follow up and jump through hoops...this shit piss me off sometimes...you just need to exert authority by demanding that you need to c her before you go on a business trip or going away somewhere for awhile...iono ...just bullshit something...if she still try to blow you offf...then forget about her and move on...shes only acting this way because she has a lot of options with many guys that hit on her...i mean look at all the fat or ugly chicks...they are always willing free and are always willing to give you the time and day because they don't have a lot of options to work with....


hope that helps....ASIAN MANDINGO