Hi friends what's going on?
I would like to receive from you a few examples of the first text message after I got the phone from her and after a while Bray did not seem digging \ desperate
Thank you
I remembered something. What do you think is better to call or send a text?

Calling her is definitely more beneficial because it is much more memorable. Most guys don't have the balls to pick up the phone and call so they just text away.

A "first text" I usually send as a follow up is something like this...

"I had a great time last night. And without getting too serious too fast, I learned to truly appreciate how rare it is to find someone who has a great sense of humor, genuinely a nice person, overall attractive, and generally pleasant to be around... But enough about me. You seem like you might be a pretty awesome person too."

Cool! But still if it was a phone call telling her what you recorded?
It seems to me what you recorded it a bit too many gives her strength and will not be playing, I think need to send something more than a game to be sarcastic
Do not think so?
I prefer text because sometimes it is really busy at work or it does not fit then we say or she answers the call look like this:
Hey what's up?
Nice about you
(Shrinking uncomfortable then you do such a thing:)
Great what you do at the weekend?
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It seems to me ..

I have been having a ton of trouble with first texts as well. Was almost going to post it in the sticking point forum. I think I've stumbled across the solution though. You need to talk about first dates with her during the interaction or find some common interest like music or something, anything. Just bring it up, even ask her "if you took me on a date where would it be?" This is great as you can tease or compliment there answer as you like. Plus you are qualifying them as well.

Then when you text them mention what they said with just a simple "I hope xxx is as good as you say it is. You really went the hard sell." Or something like that, tailor it to suit. But don't say anything else. If they remember you and like you they will respond PLUS you already know they are keen to go out with you again.

I did this on the weekend and have a date set up later in the week. She may still flake out, but there will always be more girls to meet and it will work again.

Break away from the normal. Because you call her... The phone conversation doesn't have to go that way. If she picks up and sounds like she is busy, have some social intuition and realize she is busy and ask let her know "Hey you sound busy. I'll give you a call later"

Otherwise, just pick up the phone and call and just start talking... You don't have to have the typical phone conversation of "Hey, what's up?" "How are you?" "How was your weekend?" You're gonna bore the fuck out of her if you do that lol

Hello guys the name is soulgood so i just joined the PUA forum but i knew about it for the last 5 years or so after a friend came to my country from new york and brought a book from the man himself (mystery)

any way i am having some trouble at the moment and i searched in the search box for "sms" well basicly i met this girl 2 days ago she is really nice and all that you know.. my problem is that i im trying to get a conersation started over facebook chat and i did it once and now im thinking on about inviting her to get some drinks
the problem is i dont know how to do it cuz she is really hot and i just cant go and propose a drink like all the other guys because she wills say NO i need something of a conversation starter.. a couple of months a go i saw some where that there was some kind of a SMS book that has the "conversation starter" in it like series of questions and some cool reply things on some basic question and as well some pretty under the radar stuf about liking her.. now normaly if this was any other girl i would probably handle it but this one i have a feeling that she is a hard thing to break..now im 22 and she is 19...

tried posted a link of her pic but i cant.

Say you are planning on doing something at a certain time, then invite her along. She will either accept or she won't.

Say you are planning on doing something at a certain time, then invite her along. She will either accept or she won't.[/quote]

yeah but here is the problem since i know where she lives. and its a little far from the city like 3KM im thinking i should probably pick her up but i think she dosent have that much comfort with me to go that way so thats the reason why she will probably say no.. but we had a conversation last night and im going for it to ask her today if she says no well then i havent done a good job and ill do it better next time when i ask her hah

+ her parents see me picking her up in front of the house they will have questions about it so im thinking thats not a good thing either but will see soon ill come back with the results

I think what Majika is getting at is that you don't "Have" to have a normal conversation! You can talk about whatever the hell you want to talk about.

Ex:
"Hey dork, I was eating an ice cream and it made me think about that thing you said the other day! Weird how my mind works, but anyhow what kind of trouble have you been causing?"

She will either answer the "trouble" question or her curiosity will make her ask "what did I say the other day"
Now you have her engaged in the conversation so say something that will make her feel compelled to qualify herself.

Ex:
HB: What did I say the other day?
You: It was weird, because you don't even like ice cream! (disqualification)
HB: I love ice cream!!! (qualification)
You: Yeah, prove it...Name 5 ice cream flavors!? (compliance test)
HB: Chocolate, strawberry, vanilla, rocky road, and sherbet (compliance)


Peace...

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Exactly!

Example... The other day I was at the mall... Walked past a luggage store. Decided to call this girl and tell her the luggage store made me think of her. You don't have to have a logical conversation and talk about what you ate for lunch.

well gys im back with the result the other day i posted how i liked this girl and wanted to find a way to get her out for a drink.. and the advice i got was "tell her that you are doing something at a precise time and as her to come along" well i did that and her reply was "thanks for the invite but i was all day working on the carting tracks and i just saw the message " so what you think guys should i give it another try or should i drop this what you think

Cool, I'm free on Thursday we should hang out! (Make the date for whatever day you want, just don't make it for tonight IMO)

If she responds positively then say "awesome, I will call you". Make a little small talk, and then say you gotta get back to whatever you were doing. When the day of the meeting comes call her about 3-4 hours before and say "Hey. We're gonna meet at xx place and go from there. See you about 7pm". She will be forced to either agree or cancel on you at that moment. If she cancels, say "Well thats a bummer, you suck!" then laugh...Make a little small talk, then say "Alrighty, I gotta get going, see ya around". Then never contact her again.


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so update time... last night we were talking and i said since im out of town ill contact her around the 25.th to ask her for coffee she replyed "i dont know what am i gonna do tomorow let alone on the the 25.th hahaha" so i said ok and that the reason im asking her is because i dont want to hang out all the tiem with the same people since the world is a bigger place than the street we live in..she said then "yes you are right" i sad you say but you say no to invite on coffee with what she replyed when you ask me specificly then ill give you the answer but im not promising anithing.. so guys what do you think am i getting some where im sorry for being a little spammer but i really like this one..and i can see my self ina relationship with this girl