I work as a gogo dancer and stripper. It happens all the time that girls will come up to flirt with me explicitly, getting me hard on stage, touching and sucking my dick on stage, yet not finishing me!!! So I'm left high and dry.

I assure you it's not the same thing as a shit test. They're not trying to see how easy I am, they have other motives. They seem to mostly enjoy pushing the boundaries and taking pics with their friends.

I've tried throwing lines at them under these situations. For example, "Careful not to start something you can't finish." And they'll say "Oh, I always finish." BUT THEY CLEARLY DON'T! Another example, "You're making me want to have sex." And they'll say, "That's the point." BUT THEY DAMN WELL DON'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT!

Guys are quite opposite to this. Guys don't so often get slutty with the dancers on stage, they'll just mildly flirt and then if the dancer is interested, they'll go to the bath-room/break-room/home and have sex. Girls will often be slutty with the dancers on stage but will rarely take them to the bath-room/break-room/home to finish them!

I actually don't think there's much that can be done. I think most girls have it decided from the beginning if they ACTUALLY WANT TO HAVE SEX or if they JUST WANT TO TEASE, only a minority are on the fence and can be influenced. However, I'm curious if any of you have been treated similarly by girls and/or how you might deal with situations like this.