Ok, this is about the girl I gamed in this post: behaved-afc-in-social-circle-how-do-i-r ... 61399.html. If you haven't read it, you don't need to; it's long and my issue there was resolved, thanks Snarg.

I met her on a party bus celebrating the birthdays of two mutual female friends, and spent time with her in the club too. She's Mexican (but lives on the US side of the border), and said she has a radio only cel phone without service, so we've been messaging over Facebook. I'm inclined to believe her in this case, because she was the one to go for the contact info exchange, once she started giving me more IOIs. She was very engaged over messenger until recently. When I asked her out in person the night I met her, she had originally wanted to make it a double date with her hot friend and another guy from the group; you'll see what happens over messenger. I'm trying not to be too excited, because she'll be the cutest girl I've dated since my totally clueless days in middle/high school where I dated a couple cuties but got way too needy and pushed them away. Here's some of the relevant Facebook messenger exchange between us, translated from Spanish:

Her: This Friday you and me alone?

Me: I suppose I trust you enough to go out with you alone

Her: What if I sequester you?

Me: Maybe I'll have to bring my pepper spray just in case, or my handcuffs in case you get too naughty

Her: haha whatever you think. It'd be good, but I don't like [the club I mentioned] much. There's another better one [which she mentions]. But this weekend I can't party because I have other things to do.

Me: What a flirt with two husbands [inside joke] you just asked me out for this Friday, make up your mind lol

Her: The two husbands was a joke, I was only playing [angel face]

Me: You're not as bad as you presented yourself?

Her: Do I come across bad, seriously?

Me: Haha I'm kidding too, I prefer in person where the jokes are obvious.

Her: haha ok, what are you doing?

Me: I'm sitting on a grand sofa with one of my three wives. What's your favorite ice cream and why?

Her: <Detailed, engaged response> And what's yours?

Me: Mmm, you taught me a new word in Spanish and something about you <My answer revealing something cute but not too personal about my childhood.>
PS but I want to clarify, this Friday yes or yes?
I don't think you're playing games, but the only games that work on me are the fun ones, and I know several

After this, she saw the last message 21 hours ago, and she hasn't responded yet. Guys, tell me, what's the problem (if there is one) and how should I handle it?

Well it could be that she ignored you, but thats hard to believe the conversation was going fine. I mean she did tell you she couldnt do friday and you insisted that might have been it. Its nithing terrible, just dont fuck up by sending her another message. Wait a few days and if she doesnt reiniciate the conversation talk to her again but its not a big deal.

I think you kinda lost your cool at the end of the conversation i might be able ti help you with that, pm me if you would like me to.

But yeah dont freak out people are busy. I used to freak out too about this but it doesnt mean shit, here in argentina we call that clavarle r, its slang from bbm, as bbm is very popular herend when someone sees your message and doesnt respond an r apears next to the message. Ive done it unwillingly many times people just are busy and forget to answer. Makeing a big desl out of it will fuck your gme. Even if she did ignore you, you can always let her forget that and next time make her feel good emotions when you gus talk and she will not remember.

As a side note you may have been too intence at the end of that conversation. Check that maybe

Hope it helps bro,

Jason

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