Hi guys,

I met a girl on Saturday night when I was out with the boys in a club/bar - I approached her and her friend at the bar, and just started chatting. We got on well, and they laughed of bunch times (I was on form for sure!).

Anyway one thing led to another, and seemed one of the girls and I had some work interests in common - I then asked her to dance, and we got really close and intimate and ended kissing passionately a couple of times.

We were both drunk for sure - and we both knew it.

We exchange numbers at some point, and I thought I'd drop her a text today (Tues), simply saying:

"Hey Designer! Back to operating at 100% creativeness today?" as it was a inside joke about her job (graphic design).

Anyway, she came back an hour or so later with some giggles and another inside joke about whisky we had.

How can I escalate this now to a meet? Confident enough that face to face I'll do well, just need a strategy for next couple of texts, as she didnt ask any questions but seems keen to continue to chat.

Work your way into interests shared about going out places that you enjoy. Then tell her, dont ask, tell her you will take her this place on whenever

Me:Hey ****, was nice meeting you:] - *****
Her:hey ***, yeah you to.. lol your brave haha
Me:You have no idea;] Whats your schedule like this week?
Her:hectic lol.. im working wed thur and fri 7 till 5 and on friday evening im going to tauranga for a week lol so unless you want to see if we can grab a coffe at lunch orsomthing im afraid we will have to wait till the following week lol sorry
Me:That is allgood:] 7pm tomorrow night, bring your smile
Her:what do you do ****? are you studying? or du u work?
Me:Im an animator, you?
Her:lol.. 7p.m. tomorrow night for what? an animator aye? neat im self employed im an independant commision agent
Me:Coffee, just get to know each other;] cya tomorrow hun
Her:lol ok guess ima b there lmao

Basically whats your schedule like>manage the meet up quite dominantly, while answering her questions maintaining a light fun vibe.

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