I dont understand i have like 2 co workers.

first one is pretty we talk she talks about her past boyfriends i flirt little bit she dosent bite it
laught's at my jokes and everything i give her advice how to deal with stalker another co worker
who keeps sending her love poems and i dont know how to escalate when i do something stupid
it will spread around my workplace how to take it next step.
we connect so good she was telling me sob stories how her friends
have died this past year and we talk about families and stuff.
Question : Am i friendzoned?

Second one works next to my shop and shes not that pretty at all shes just
like flirting me i was today helping her i feel so terrible used by her i was there
for like hour and half helping her when my friends where calling me to go out
to take lunch in city and i was flirting her everything trying to kino when i
put my hand on her shoulder she quickly moved her so fast so i had to take it
off so she says... u will be lucky someday find ur princess and she will find hers
when we split off i was sending her to see some male friend she has
she tells me "Dont be sad" wtf it means? thats second time some girl has told
me dont be sad? And she tells me like im so good she dosent have friends(boys) who she can
talk so openly. Am i friendzoned twice?

Are you their therapist or are you trying to pick them up?

There are more than 2 women on this planet you know. To hell with them. Next.

Seems so... every girl ive met tells me im amazing listener and im sweet guy
but theres no zing? Nohting i fall to friendzone quicker than bear finds honey in forrest
i dont know what to do i cant be badass i seem so fake.basicaly they tell me their sob stories how
boys have dumped them and how they cant find love but im there just standing who i am ?
Im not guy or something im like their girlfriend.drives me insane.

In my experience is better to think that there is no such thing as a Friendzone...
Forget about it, I was really afraid of it and the fact is that you can get out of there any time you want.

It is ok to be a good listener keep that just be proud of your desires and impulses and talk about them too. If you don't tell them how sexy do you think they are and how much you want to do naughty stuff with them, they'll never know...

Stop trying to escalate or touch them in order to pick them up. Touch them an escalate because that's what you want to do, and that is the way to show your intentions to her...

You do not have to be a badass, you just have to put yourself and your needs first... Listen as long as she listens to you, got it? If she doesn't want to listen how much you want to f@ck her, then you do not have to listen to her problems.

Just reply something like: Who says I'm looking for a princess? maybe I'm just looking for an ordinary girl to share some fun moments with... In fact if it wasn't Tuesday today I would just jump over you and start kissing you immediately. Anyway don't worry its not going to happen, I've to go now. See you tomorrow?

Really use your good listening skills as your advantage, they already like you, just show them that you have also balls.

Yes, these girls have definitely friendzoned you. Don't worry about this too much, though... there are LOTS of other girls out there. Have the "mentality of plenty", this will make your life a LOT less dramatic and much happier.

In order to avoid the friendzone, there are a couple of things I recommend.

• Use the cocky/funny technique taught by David DeAngelo (his "Double Your Dating" ebook is available for around $14... google it). Not a lot of guys on this site really seem to have this technique down, and it is REALLY powerful.
• Escalate sexually relatively quickly. You need to learn "kino" for this. Google "pua kino" and watch the videos and real the articles. Also watch Gambler's "Stealth Attraction" series: http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL3D0D9763FDD24035
• Practice, practice, practice... on real life girls in a variety of situations.
• Be cool with the fact that this will take a while to learn... and have fun while you're doing it.

Cheers, ~50

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