| Hi I think that I can help with this one.
First of all, well done, it sounds to me that your approach, the way you build attraction and how you isolate is very similar to me, the only difference is the close which luckily for you is the easiest party. Obviously the amount of attraction and kino that you guys have effects this but as a basic principle I would do this:
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1) You have sat down, built rapport, and your getting very physical, lots of kissing etc. The heat is definatly on, in this scenario you don't need any false pretenses, I would say, I'm getting bored in here, lets go chill at mine for a bit.. You could add I have best apartment in the world you just have to see it, come on lets go.... Usually works.. just assume its on stand up, offer her your hand and start walking, act like its completely normal for you.
2) If its more like a 5 second kiss and 5-10 minutes of rapport, then you could say, I'm really hungry, how about you.. tell you what lets go get some food... get up take her hand and lead her out.. once outside you can either go takeway, whilst waiting for food tell her shes gorgeous, kiss her, keeping her attraction high, then once food arrives, jump in a taxi, and tell her lets go mine and have this, we can chill there for a bit...or if your really feeling the confidence, get outside, and tell her you know i was thinking takeaway but i remember i have the best pizzas ever at my place, lets go there, you're going to love them...
The basic principle behind all of this is a girl usually does not want to feel like a slut, she needs plausible deniability to go with you to your place, so make a list of none-sexual reasons why she might do that with a new person.. and that way she will find it easier to say yes, no matter how silly the reasons are...
Side note: if your more advanced, you could like I do, set challenges early on in the interaction, setting the frame of a girl that does do this kind of thing without making it too obvious.. for example I would be saying that most of the time i meet girls who are predictable a bit boring, i live in the moment, and i'm up for trying new things, are you spontaneous, or are you like that? that might then lead to, would you say your a follower or a leader, are you independent most girls go with the flow, i like a girl that goes for what she believes in, if shes lives up to that and says yeh i'm up for new things and i do what i want.. later on you can bring it back when your kissing,, on a high note, you know what i love about you, you are your own person, and i love that.. tell you i want to get to know you better but its so noisy in here, lets get some food and chill at mine... come on lets go.... its more likely she will with that kind of reason.
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