This has become a recent epidemic of mine. I've found great success in opening and building attraction initially and then after a date or in between it just falls apart.

I've been attracting the same types of women the last few months at my uni: Popular, HB8/9, pretty liberal, have a ton of guy friends, partying on the weekends.

Something in my personality must be signaling something to them. My techniques/personality is confidence, funny, negging and that all seems to work...but I DON'T WANT TO TARGET THIS GIRLS.

I'm looking for that cute, studious HB7. I'm done gaming solely based on getting a lay.

My problem is I can't get that cute HB7. I seem to be able to build the initial attraction to get their number and flirt some, but from there everything kind of falls apart. Everything I do with the HB8/9 with those personalities seems to completely backfire on me here.


I'm bringing this up because this awesome HB7 has shown painfully obvious interest in me and I do not want to go about it the same way I have before with girls in this class because I've failed. It seems like too much confidence can be a turn off to them.

Any ideas?
Text game?

Omg. Sustaining interest? How about BE INTERESTING. Do something in your life that YOU THINK IS AWESOME.

If she doesn't think it's interesting, then she isn't the one for you anway. Aka GFTOW.

Seriously. Have a standard. You obviously don't have ten women available to choose from or you woudln't be worrying about interest. Build up an abundance at whatever level you can. Certain things that happen on early encounters might seem really special, until you get those same happenings many times over.

If you don't have any girls to talk to, it might be special that you finally got one girl to talk to you. It may be a special event in your life, but it is meaningless as far as your relationship with the girl is concerned.

You don't need to go out and bang a bunch of chicks. You can just get numbers. The abundance practice/mentality is universal.



Also, it sounds like you're having a problem escalating. Escalation is a big deal. You should be comfortable touching women. Women will sense this comfort you have and be comfortable with it themselves. This just naturally leads to you being horny, which leads to escalation.

GABAPYCO Baby! Works every time.

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Yay for Lothario.

Also, your post is very general. Maybe be more specific about what your interactions are like. Give some examples of what you do, what you talk about. Ask a generic question, get a generic answer (a great generic answer at that).