Top tip: Do not overdo the kissing. All it will do is kill the sexual tension, make you seem a bit needy and low value. Instead make your first make out brief then you break it off first and hold the tension. Build comfort and at the same type do some sexual framing. Once you have got this first kiss you can get away will all kinds; whispering dirty things in her ear, grabbing her ass etc.
You are on the money with push pull, change it up between sexual, comfort building and playful communication.
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"Once you learn to feel the fear and
do it anyway, the outcomes will come."- 60yoc
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