This mostly takes place at work with girls I work with or places Frequent a lot. But when there's a new girl at work or a customer that comes in on a regular basis I do the basic tease and c&f and get a lot of ioi's at first but eventually I causally talk to them on a regular basic and the relationship seems relaxed and they seem comfortable about me and will talk to me about personal stuff but I cant tell if they are still interested or lost interest or I'm just in mid game. So what's happening?


Second question is I've had some of the girls that I talk to on a regular basis seem really interested when working together or Irun into them but cold on facebook or through text. And I've even taken a couple weeks break and ran into them again and they seem all excited to see me but I'm like wtf! Well you could have texted me or hit me up on facebook. So why hot when talking but cold through text and facebook? Is there something I'm not getting?

looks like to me you need to escalate, not stay with the c/f stuff indefinitely. did you ask them out? did you do any kino?

how do i escalate? i usually get phone numbers and add them on facebook. one of they i tried to hand out with four times and she flaked out every time. i know people are flaky but it irritates me really bad and discourages me from trying. most of them have ex's their seeing off and on. but that makes me think they are just waiting for someone to come into the picture. im really bad at not doing kino, it just seems really unnatural to touch people but i understand how it make an impact. im starting to do it with the new girls but how do i start back up doing kino with the girls ive seemed distant from for awhile?

Bump!