I just want to apologize for the long post ahead of time but here we go.

I would say i have pretty decent game but there is always a few that i mess up on and i am sure you guys can relate a little. So ive known her for awhile and she is a tricky one.

She seems to be into me and all over me kissing when i have another girl around that likes me etc. but when i start to show signs that im into here she pulls away and that when the lets just be friends comes out.

So here is the most recent story:

I haven't talked to or hung out with her for some time. So i get an invite to her birthday on a party bus. I end up bringing this super hot girl that was total into me all night. This "Friend" starts to question me about this new hot girl in my life. Are you dating etc? I took it as a sign like most of us would.

So needless to say she starts inviting me out more and i start to drift away from the hot girl and more towards this "friend". Well now we went out saturday and hung out with my close friends and her close gfs we end up flirting, dancing, making out etc. She text me that next day saying im so much fun to hangout with, im awesome, i can't wait until next time etc. We send txt over the last few days like morning babe, i can't wait to see you etc. So im totally thinking like yes im winning her over, and this is totally working. So ive been inviting her to different places like a concert tomorrow and we are going to ny sat into sun but last night we were kind of flirtly like always and when i was taking her home i go in for the kiss and she goes i want to wait and i didn't listen and just kissed her anyway for a cpl mins. She loved it so it seemed. She goes txt when you get home because we were a bit tipsy and we said our good byes. So i get home and tell her these words: God damn why do you have to be so damn beautiful i blame your mama haha I had lots of fun with you tonight... Txt me in the morning cause im home safe now. She replys with this: Had fun too but listen i just want to be friends glad your home safe. and i reply with good night ttyl... My stomach drops and i go wtf did i do wrong this time. Obviously i probably went a little to far with the msg above but how can i get her back and out of the friend zone. Tonight she wanted to hang out, so i was thinking about blowing her off or showing up for a little then bail early like im going to meet up with another girl etc. Thursday i have a concert with her and this weekend we are taking a trip to ny just us and staying at a hotel. So i need answers quick guys. please help me see where i might have gone a stray.

When you do all of this crap together who's wallet opens 1st?

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

She got the tickets for tomorrow and i don't pay for her drinks when we are out but the ny trip was my idea and ill be paying for that.

Flip the scrip on her ass.

Tell her you can still go on the trip, BUT no touching. And that judging by her kissing she's probably not that good anyway. But she can wing for you. Because a good friend would. But none for HER! NO MATTER HOW HORNY SHE GETS[/b]

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I know the typical ways to win most people over but I just hate that she gives me mixed signals. I will try that but any other suggestions.

The mixed signals is her trying to flip you. She will give you attention so you pay her attention back, then she will back off when you are giving too much since she thinks she "lured" you then. Do what Heywood said - dont' do anything for the "NY trip." Hell, I would lightly flirt with other girls in front of her if she wants to be "friends."

Basically she is doing what some hot girls do, they are doing their own game - do not fall for it.

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