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PostPosted: Mon Jan 21, 2013 4:39 pm 
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I don't normally go after a 10/10 but i finally said f it and taking a shot..

So there this hb10/10 that i went to school w ten years ago but we never hung out jus know of each other. We went from pof to fb now to texting. I tried getting her out Saturday but she said she already had plans(after lookin at her fb it looks like she was out w 7other girls thats intimidating) so maybe thatz y she ditched. We touched a little on our dating life over text and i was basically honest w her. We both kinda agreeed we were both picky and thats why we r single.

One of her last texts last night was..
"Unfortunately I'm going back to work from a two week vacation so I have no free time till next Sunday, but after that I'd love to meet up and chat. Text me "

Where do i go from here? Any pointers on what i can do to build more attraction an get her out?


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 22, 2013 7:27 pm 
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PostPosted: Wed Jan 23, 2013 12:59 pm 
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Build more attraction via text???

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 23, 2013 1:12 pm 
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Be the one getting chased. Tell her your going to this thing and it would be great if she wanted to go too. Also don't act to desperate. Also there are no 10's Its just something for guys to aspire for. They are like unicorns.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 23, 2013 7:47 pm 
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Yah I'm talking via text... We have been texting and I'm looking to get her out. I need advice on places I should go(my environment like a bar or some place new n classy). Yes she's very attractive but I agree w the ten/ten. I jus get nervous w really attractive girls. The ugly/avg ones I'm fearless


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Im not the most experienced here, but this would be my suggestion:

Unless you are very comfortable with your text game, dont text her unless you have to. I would also say even if you are good with text game dont text her again until thursday evening. this shows you are not chasing and are doing your own thing. On thursday casually text and drop a hint that you have some plans on sunday and you want her to come BUT DONT OUTRIGHT SAY THAT! subtlety is key. I would keep it to under 8 texts for the whole conversation. then call her on saturday to make the actual plans. you can read way more into what shes thinking if you can hear her voice instead of texting where you can only read the text.

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 24, 2013 8:17 am 
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Be easy man..don come off to strong (too many text without response back,too many lol's make u look cheesy)
Tell her you would like to go and if not no sweat . Learn to be able to bounce off her comments into something funny(will keep her interested till you see her ) remember confidence is key ..

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 24, 2013 6:57 pm 
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Also, Is liking her pics or a status of hers say a bad idea? She seems interested an literally told me to bother her at work via text until we meet up.


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Also, Is liking her pics or a status of hers say a bad idea? She seems interested an literally told me to bother her at work via text until we meet up.
Sounds like an attention whore. They like to collect men and puppy dog them. I would watch out and only give what you get.

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Don't even consider liking her fb pics. That's top level needy and clingy. If you can tell she's already interested that's an amazing way to make her lose interest. Just as Chinopants said, it will be awesome for her to have a legion of puppies liking her status and pics on fb.

Telling you to bother her at work is a tricky one. Be careful with that and don't do it! She thinks she wants you to do it, but trust me, she doesn't. Or else she said that to test you. Since she is a 10 she is probably craving attention, you will give her a huge ego massage by doing that.

In my opinion, keep things cool, text her once over the week to ask about how things are going and then text her over the weekend to make actual plans. She already said she'd love to meet you. I cannot say for sure if she was lying or not, but if she weren't, you shouldn't have big problems to meet her up.

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 28, 2013 2:38 am 
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As everyone said, keep things casual and freeze her out. In regards to the plans, I would say try to make this a group thing? That way it seems you are just being "nice" and inviting her out to YOUR plans that you already made.

Something like:

you: "what you doing this weekend?"
hb10: "bla bla bla, im free saturday if you want to hang out?"
you: "sorry, i have plans, but let me see if you can't tag along"

This way you are kind of making it not that big of a deal, that she isn't the main concern to you right now.

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