I had a news year party where many of my friends had some of their own friends with them. This one girl which all of my guys are trying so hard to get laid with. but that is exactly what she is. "Hard To Get".
Stories go that she says direct "no just no" to direct flirting. and is aware of her own quality.

She was comming to my party. And it went pretty well. I had her trying to open conversations with me while i was talking to someone else. pretty much just had a good first hand expression with her.

Now after the party, one of her friends had lost her stilletoes at my place. It was arranged that i should bring them to my class because the self confident girl is apparently near my class, and wanted to pick them up for her.

I was texting a little with the girl which had lost her stilletoes. In this conversation i had some game going on directed to the Self confident girl. Tounge and cheek talking about i really wanted to get down with this self confident girl.

The Stilletoes loosing girl asked me if i wanted to go to bed with the other girl, and i said.

Maybe if she was in a hot top with roses and dim lightings going on.

And she thought that was interresting.

Tomorrow i'm going to meet up with this self confident girl.

How am i gonna act?

If a girl is acting overly confident with you thats normally an IoD, girls generally get more submissive and complaint as they are attracted in the initial stages

With strong willed woman its more important to act confidently and in control of the frame, she is used to guys backing down from her and deferring to her. Don't do this, even if she appears disapproving of you. If she wont relinquish control to you then you have little chance of success other then as a safe/fun boy if thats what she wants.

shes just another bich neg her and dont give her any attention dont put her on a pedestal just go and have fun do whatever you want to do and dont give a fuck. listen to no worries by lil wayne before you go to.

Can i play some kind of game on her? Putting a note in one of the stilletoes. Giving her the stiletoes and then saying to her that she may not look in the note because it is for her friend. Then i will hurry off again, because i have a class i will need to attend to. By saying that she may not look in the note, she will look anyway, and i will have wroten on the note - i knew you would look.

Showing that i am in control of myself and her actions, and keeping the playfull and polite actions.

Define IoD Please

indicator of disinterst

she is not special
she is not beautiful or unique snowflake
she is just some girl.

bringing A game to girls always got lame.

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Excuse my awful English !!!

I would be paying attention to her voice/body language, and yours. Generally peoples voices rise in pitch when they are submissive and lower when they feel they are in control. I wouldn`t be overly smiley either.