So this HB8 and I are on college sports teams and I'm into her. We don't have practice at the same time, but met at a team event and briefly talked, but we started talking a lot recently (one of those never ending text convos and we talk in person). Tonight I went out to dinner with her and chilled with her after in my room (No sex or anything) but did touch her hands and feet (cold weather) briefly to start some kino. At dinner she paid for us (I was getting out my wallet and she put her credit card down and I said I'd pay for us or at the very least myself and she kept saying no so I said I owe her but she said I don't). I think this was a date, just her and me at a restaurant and in my room, but I have been an AFC and fallen into the FZ in the past (after finding this site I'm changing though). I want to go out with her again, and we have a team thing on Friday, but we'd both be surrounded by a ton of friends and she doesn't drink (I kinda do) so I'm not sure a party is the best way to advance. She has invited me over to her room sometime to have some whipped cream with her (girl is obsessed with it and I've never had it) so any ideas on how to advance at this?

Also, we've been texting every day, I usually take my time to respond to slow down the convo (not rush right to FZ) and for DHV (busy guy). I try to flirt with her on these texts and shes called me her number one person in her life forever and stuff on them (not really jokingly or sarcastically either) any idea what that indicates and how I should advance with texting?

Escalate physically, stop the text non-sense.

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Alright thanks. Escalating physically is definitely my weak spot, but at the same time it's the most important aspect to advance and not fall in the FZ. I briefly played with her foot an hand when they were cold. I know there's the palm reading thing too, but any escalation ideas for casual form hangouts?

Thanks

It's called kino bro. There have been many-a-good threads created about this already, of which I have personally provided a lot of good tips. By the way, none of it has ever included footsy. I'm just sayin'...

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thanks I found some good KINO tips after really searching...surprisingly hugged her from behind, got slapped by her, touched her hands, rubbed stuff off her clothes, and gave her a goodnight hug (didn't kiss- didn't feel right and her best friend was with us at the end (probably shouldn't have waited that long)

Dude, she gave you the ultimate in. Whipped cream is forever being included in the bedroom. Don't use it as a sexual thing, but it's your in. It's pretty easy to make from scratch (don't buy the canned crap). Bring over the ingredients (literally a small box of cream and perhaps some sugar). You and her make a batch and when it's done, blot some on her nose. Blot some on her chin. Blot some on her blouse (be bold, so what if now she has to wash it). Blot some on her crotch (so you could help her wipe it off). Of course, do this playfully but once you've started the kino, now you can validate touching her even when there isn't any whipped cream. After you've cleaned up. Get my drift? Of course, I trust that you know enough to be tactful, but if you don't make a move, you are trapped in the friend zone.

Good luck.

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