Hi,

I slept with a girl in Norway (I live in England), and we got on really well! We're now on facebook, and actually I like her!

I escalated the facebook game and we've had sex-chat, and exchanged pictures, and it was going great! but now (because its the xmas period) i've kinda accidently been speaking to her at least a bit every day - and now, the talk seems to have died down from the sex stuff and into more general 'friend zone' conversation.

She was already planning on visiting England in February, and has now altered her plans to spend at least a couple days with me - this is great, but I really dont want to fuck it up over facebook before then!

My plan at the moment, is to hold off from talking to her so regularly, and keep the highly sexual context surrounding our online chat - and also let her chase my attention for a bit.

What do you think? How can I play this out for another 6 weeks?!?