hey does this situation happen to you guys before..?

I text this girl every few days and we have a good conversations. she usually writes alot in her texts and asks about me. but last week, we texted throughout the day and carried to the night, going back and forth giving full texts and when i tease her alittle bit, she just slams me with a one word text "idk". but whats confusing me is that we were having a good convo cus shes wriiting alot to me and all of a sudden she just kills the convo in a sec. i dont think i was being mean cus we usually tease each other in person so it would be normal for us.

Hey dude, could you give a little more information? Maybe some text from the messages? What are you talking about with her, what are your goals, etc.

i think the problem lies within itself. a big rule of texting is that you should text too much. i usually only text when i want something or to set up a meeting.

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i meant to say should not text too much. woops. haha.

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For right now, we just talk about our days, what are we doing now, other random stuff that happens to each other. she actually keeps the conversation very long because she texts alot. for example she would tell me how she got lost going to the mall after going there already and then i tease her about it. its weird tho, everytime i try to tease her about something, she doesnt fight back, she just gives me an "lol" or "i knoww". sometimes i think she assumes i'm being serious because sometimes i dont put a "lol" or a smiley face in the end of the sentence. for example i would say " your an idiot" and yeah idk she doesnt tease back. but then the next few days i text her again and we have a conversation again and she gives me all smiley faces and laughs. I intend to ask this girl out but for now I'm just waiting to make sure she likes me back. however I'm confused as hell lol. we're in the same major so we always talk during school but i want to take her outside school. And so far I've done the intiating in the texting game. should i wait for a few days for her to text me first this time? its gonna be a few weeks before we can see each other in school again so all i can do this break is text or call her.
thanks btw for helping a clueless college guy out haha

Dude, you may actually be walking your way into the friendzone. thats what im seeing from what you just said about your convos over text. but don't freak out about this. keep cool. if you really want her, try a different approach. maybe tell her you are busy alot to avoid texting so much. its good to make her wait. it builds tension. but dont wait too long.

you may also want to try working on your texting game. there are many posts up around the forum for you to look at.

Ive learned a lot on this site so that next year, when im out of high school and in college, i can sarge twice as well as im doing right now (which isnt so bad if i do say so myself) and so that i dont go into college clueless.

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Yeah be careful man, too many texts just about general chit chat can often lead to the friendzone. If you are trying to shag this girl then you should be more selective with your texts and aim to hit the points needed to get her into your bed (attraction, comfort, trust etc.) Dont always be the first to text as this is a sign that the girl has power over you, and she knows it, therefore its no fun for her and isnt a challenge to get your attention. Also you could try adopting the cocky funny approach in a few of your texts and see how she responds to these.
Like mentioned above, there are plenty of helpful threads about texting games on this forum. From personal experience, ive been texting a few girls, playing some interesting different games with each of them to see which works best. Cocky funny without sounding too desperate for sex at the same time is a big winner so far. Demonstrating value by talking about gym, hanging out with other girls, and sex openly with her, without sounding like you want to sleep with her has worked for me. Throw in a few soft negs aswell, but if they go bad compliment to save yourself. And arrange to meet up or something, but tell her dont ask her. And leave it a secret, tell her a time and what she has to bring or something, and make it fun

Zeus

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yeah I guess i should read up on that stuff. idk i might bail out of this because its been a week and she hasn't initiated yet...