I overheard a girl today discussing why she nexted this guy. She had been texting with him off and on for a month. Then last night she invited him over to her home to meet her, a friend, and her kids. He showed up and brought some beer and as you can imagine, the others were kind of critical of him for various reasons. In typical fashion, he waited around until the others went to bed and tried to isolate. The girl said he tried some awkward kino moves at the end and tried to rub his hands on her legs like he was trying to warm them up. Then he moved into her personal space to try to get close, and she was giving him iod's because she said it was awkward and he wasn't smooth. He left since she had to go to bed early for work the next day. Then he texted later that night and sealed his fate:

Text one (10:45): Hey, I hope you didn't mind me hanging out over there tonite.
Text two (10:54): I take it that you did then.
Text three (11:09): Sorry it didn't work out.

Keep in mind that she never responded to these texts. He just did all that on his own. She was even like "How needy and stalkerish can you get?!" when she was telling the story. Then she said he's a gonner.

I wanted to share this story because, yes, it's obvious he's a typical AFC. But it gives you some insight into the woman's perspective of AFCs and guys with bad game and fucking things up with text messages. His first problem was going to the lion's den. The second problem was not using kino properly. The third was coming across as way too needy and relying on her to answer texts in a timely manner. Just thought I'd share this story for what it's worth.

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great post dude. i have seen this happen to many people. and they always come running to me asking where they F'd up.

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Great post man.

at a bar last Friday, I opened a way too young girl just for practice.
She was with a guy, and I clearly was more fun than him (i was dressed in a real poncho and sombrero for my work xmas party). After throwing a few laughs her way, I could tell her friend wasnt impressed with my presence (yes I included him in the conversation). As he ordered their drinks, I asked her how she knew him, they were friends of friends. Jokingly I said "so do your friends know about you two?" and she replied oh no it's not like that, we're just friends. So i asked her "have you had the talk with him?" and she said, OMG please dont make this weird for me! These two had a very different view of why they were out drinking together. Maybe, like Ninja's OP, this was a test for these guys. If it was, they both failed!

I think there are many messages here. Take from it what you will.....

Mixar

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