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*Alright, well I met a girl at work.

Honestly I was not that interested in her at first, she wanted to get to know me more then I cared to get to know her. I mean she asked my for my number! lol

Now over the course of a couple weeks I grew to like her a lot, because she actually turned out to be a very interesting and good girl that is right for me.

Shes a very friendly girl and we have been hanging out, had a sorta recent break up and just seems to be in no rush to get into a relationship.

Now with women I do not really care about in the sense of getting into a relationship I can be so flirty and come off as an amazing guy.

Once I start hanging out and start to care, I almost seem to have this odd fall back?

That flirty side just simmers away and almost become nervous for some reason?

Its still there but less apparent. I am calm, cool, collected. Almost like I am less sexual because I may be afraid of pushing them away?

Believe me its an odd and almost past occurrence, but sadly it was present while I was with her so what happened?

I did’nt kiss her..Instead I asked her if she would be interested in dating…lol

She said “No not right now, blah blah just friends and if anything happens it happens” (Blunt I know there is more but not worth mentioning)

Oh yeah, when she left I kissed her on the cheek :/ meh….

Now I am not going to lie I did some subtle lame ass moves like trying to get her to kiss me. (Worked on a girl before her) (Which was before asking her interest in dating me)

Last time we hung out, I didn’t do anything. We hung out for only a couple hours so I was like bleh because I was awoken by her to hang out in the middle of the night…dont ask.

Now!!

The next time We hang or whatever, I was going to step it up and flirt with her like I was able back before I cared.

Was planning on that and kissing her, most likely before she leaves.

Please, in need of some kind of advice…Anything before long term I am great at but once this crap happens I manage to lose it.

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