| Ever, since our ancestors lived in the African Savanna or in Caves of the Northern Hemisphere. Women, have done the choosing, as much as we guys might think otherwise. But not everything is lost my friends; one thing we can do about it is to polish our social skills and adorn ourselves for the ancestral display. Just like the male peacock displays his survival and replication values though his colorful plumage! We can also display our Alpha male characteristics through dance.
When you dance, you broadcast your Genetic potential. You show that you are fit and healthy; ready to defend her from the saber-toothed tiger our ancestor had to deal with. Also, that you are a guy that has leadership potential; that you are willing to take a risk, meaning that you can provide to her if she choose you. Similarly, through dance she can judge how good you are in bed, when you move on the dance floor girls unconsciously are screening you to see if you have the erotic skills that will make her have a good time later on. It is important to note that by elevating her heart rate in the dance floor (make her have a good time) she instinctively gets the message that you will have no problem giving her what she needs behind closed doors! What it boils down to is…anytime you make a girl’s heart beat a little faster than usual in a good way, she will believe that she is falling for you; since when she is attracted to a guy she has the same physiological response. Dance game is another tool to create attraction (amplify attraction) in a girl. Just as looking at her in the eyes with your bedroom eyes, she experiences a similar body response as of that of fear, but a fear that she is not willing to run from. She feels a compelling need to stay because she is unconsciously looking to mate as well. There is a reason even extremely shy girls go to a party. Their urge to find a mate is much greater than their shyness…they might be only able to stay for five minutes at the party, but deep down they want a guy with the guts to approach them and take them out of their shyness: to fill the emptiness they feel. Most of the time they do not know what this urge that compels them to go out is; they just know that they must go out. Like a salmon leaves the ocean to travel upstream to mate! I have met girls that are clinically shy, being me I always keep my eyes open to spot the pray, so as soon as a girl comes in venue, I talk to them. They might not talk much, but if you ask for their info…you later have a chance to work them on the phone!
When you practice your dance game; you consciously or unconsciously broadcast “I AM AN ALPHA MALE!” I am a guy that is not afraid of getting what he wants…and what I want is you. Now the next step is up to her…if she is willing to follow her genetic mandate of replication or is she too shy to let herself go? When you look, like the man, when even guys complement your style, then it will not take long for girls to give you IOI’s left and right. They will look at you look down and away and a few seconds later, she will look your way again. In which case ,you must smile and acknowledge her secret message. By then I would just approach and ask her to dance, most girl will follow my lead. By doing that you demonstrated that you take action and that are not intimated by the watching crowd! The other day I asked my wigman Walter what he thought of dance game, since he has seen me dancing with HB10’s more than anyone, he said this “because women will give a good dancer, a higher value over others...even overlooking his shortcomings...as long as she is having fun.”!
Girls are turn on by guys that have the guts to have a good time and bring them along for the ride! By taking her out to dance, shows that you are a risk taker and a fun guy to be around! In a sense when you own the dance floor you became the man, since all the guys are looking at you, and wondering; how in the word is this guy are rubbing your crotch on that HB9 or HB10 ass (and she is enjoying it), while they were trying to talk to her for the past hour. I personally have seen, guys with expensive suits…look at me with a jealous look. They can’t believe their eyes, that a 5”3” Mexican guy can be making out with girls he just met in the dance floor of clubs!
You might not be the best looking guy, but if you display the Alpha male characteristics, women will respond to you. You must be in the same wavelength to understand the IOI women send to though, the shy ones will just look and smile at you, while the more confident ones will check you out, or in my case, touch my cowboy hat or event spank my ass to get my attention! When I go to parties…I might missed some IOI, not because I am inept but because I get a lot IOIs from so many girls, that I missed some of them. Thankfully, my good friend Walter, lets me know of the girl who look at me and smiled while I was walking through the crowd at one of the best rooftops of New York City!
I have had guys come up to me after seeing me dancing with hot chicks and said to me that I am an inspiration. I am humble by that kind of revelation, and when they ask for advice I give it, free of charge…well almost free of charge because they have to buy me a drink, if a girl hasn’t bought me one that is! When I see a guy with the willingness to get in the dance floor and try to dance, I invite him to join the party. Since I am usually dancing with 3 or 5 girls at the time; as a guy I know my limitations. I keep the cutest girls for me though and let the guy help himself with the other poor souls. But as the say…to be a good hunter you have to practice with the small pray first!
You what to know the first step in becoming a good dancer, well here it is. Step out of your house and go to clubs and bars. Second is to get in the dance floor, I know…I know it is scary; it was for me when I first started, maybe not as scary as it is for some guys. But girls will not hold it against you if you move like you are having a seizure. It doesn’t hurt if you dance like Travolta either, like one of my friends once told me ‘you move like a Travolta’ while other compared my stamina to a machine. Nonetheless, girls will appreciate your willingness to learn and will love to teach you some good moves. Let me tell you a little secret, girls love to teach guys things, they enjoy dressing guys up (undressing them as well) and doings stuff for them! The biggest obstacle in becoming good at dancing is your fear of making yourself look like a fool in the dance floor, but if you don’t care about that…neither will the girl. They will be pleased and joining you on the dance floor and yes people will talk. But they will be telling to their friends how jealous they are that you are dancing with the hottest girls in the venue!
On occasion you will stumble into some guys with money that will try to down play your success with the ladies in the dance floor. But that is because even though they have the buck…they luck the confidence to just take a risk and just give the ladies what they secretly are wanting. And what they want is for the guy to take her to floor, make her have a wonderful night. Be that guy...that women will be thinking for the rest of the week about, be the guy that will awake her genetic mandate to replicate!
By; Conquistador
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