Hi everyone,

the story with this 8/10 so far:
-she opened me last week in train station, after I ended a conversation on my mobile phone which must've been DHV (it was alpha, so I can imagine)
-did slight negging, more DHV, did A3 on the train, and into C1 I got her number
-texted her two days after "we gotta continue or conversation out getting a drink. How's tuesday?"
-she waited a day before answering "i'd love to, tuesday's fine"

After sorting out the logistics with texts that same day (saturday) I sent no more texts. Yesterday was the big D2, and I was gonna go for C2 + lotta kino escalation.

The date went good, bounced couple of times, and got good comfort building going. On the kino front (my sticking point btw) it went weird imo: she never pulled away when i touched her, she gave her hand when i asked (to check her ring), etc, but she never initiated nor maintained kino. I always took away within 5 seconds, because I wasn't getting that good of a vibe. She's a girl comfortable with her sexuality, but I guess she wants the guy to have balls and do everything himself, so maybe her non responding my kino was a shit test? Cause she never seemed uncomfortable either...

On to my next question: when I walked her to her place (with the intent of going for the kiss) she just said it was nice, i said we should do something soon sometime, and she replied "great, just send me a text" Then a polite kiss on the cheek "bye" - and that was it. I'll keep the k-close for next time, can't postpone it anymore, but I wanna know if the "you have to text me about our next meet-up" is a shit test? Reason why it could be: she appears to have high self esteem, is comfortable in any situation, and i think i can match up, but just barely. Hard to DHV a girl like this cause she is doing it non-stop as well.

Specifically I'm doubting between:
-texting after 48 hours or so, as to not to come on too strong but keep showing interest
-texting after five to seven days in the hope she'll text first
-not texting until i get a text from her - risk of losing her

Any tips?

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Game on

Text her after five to seven days if she don't text you first. Sounds like she's a little stuck up, a little entitled, and expects the guy to jump through hoops.

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I really liked this information.

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Dubli

Me too. Thanks to puaninja for an insightful, to the point answer! (I'm new to the community but have read many good posts from him)

Cheers

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