So here's the story.

In the past few months I've had a good time with women, basically not giving a F and enjoying picking up girls left and right. Last week a girl messaged me on a dating website and we started chating on facebook.

Things went a bit downhill from here. I started really liking the girl and thinking she was perfect for me. The tale tell signs of an incoming oneitis.

So we basically set up a date and I invited her to the restaurant. I was so fucking anxious that I nearly threw up in the shower. My stomach was in knots, I was feeling very bad about the whole date. I'm usually a cool, calm and collected guy and have a good, laid back time with women.

So we got to the restaurant and I basically felt the need to tell her that I was feeling nervous about the whole thing and that I wasn't hungry. Drank some wine, we ate and it went fairly well considering the circumstances.
Next day she messages me and tells me she's very eager to see me again, and asks to see me the same day.

She stops by my place and we have a fun time her friend pick her up to go somewhere else..

Now I'm totally falling for this girl and next morning I can't even sleep I can't stop thinking about her so I text her the most beta crap I ever texted to a girl and it goes something as follows :

ME : Hey, I know it's not really strategic but I can't stop thinking about you, It's making me crazy!
HER : I feel totally the same

And me rambling about how I feel and what not. Then I hit another BETA milestone, I cringed at myself writing these but I couldnt help it :


ME : You are everything I'm looking for in a girl and I think that's a bit troubling for me, you came out of nowhere and I'm a little weirded out.

Still, she offered to come by my place, she wanted to see me today AGAIN. I guess I haven't fucked up really but how do I go from here? Freeze her out for a day or two? Not initiate contact and set up a date later this week?

Help, I don't want to fuck this one up! hahaha

You haven't scared her off, so just calm down. I don't think this is an appropriate moment to freeze her out, she hasn't done anything bad. In fact, she says she wants to come over, so invite her over and fuck her brains out.

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One of the most useful things you will ever learn about body language.

The good news is that you unwittingly said some things that are actually Mystery Method approved. You DO want to tell a girl that she is stuck in your head and you can't stop thinking about her. He calls it highjacking your brain. You also threw a psuedo-neg in there by saying that it's making you crazy and you don't know what's wrong with you. Like it's a bad thing that you like her, lolz. The better news for you is that she wasn't put off by it and is agreeing to keep seeing you. Although, I'd nip this in the bud and start doing some alpha shit real soon. Enough of this AFC nonsense. Close her.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Well I guess my charisma and my good looks came in handy on this one.

I think she actually was MORE into me after I said those things. She told me she was concerned that I was saying these things to make her feel special and that I was a big player.

Anyways, went back to her place yesterday after work and smashed, so everything is good.

Nice! Mystery Method still works!

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn