I met her a few months ago in my last days at high school. I was a senior , she was a year younger . After we all finished our exams we threw a party and the next day me and some friends planned to go somewhere to celebrate my birthday . At that time I was chasing another girl , but still I invited her and her sister . In the morning me , those two girls and two friends of mine started to joke and mess around . Since then we have been like a 5 man squad , we started to hang out nearly every day . But soon after , we threw a barbecue , just the 5 of us and after I got a little tipsy and started to brag about the girl I was chasing we had to leave . On the way home I simply wanted to stay more comfortable in the car so I had 1 hand out the window and one hand over this girl . I had no intention to hit at her but she texted one of my friends later that I hit on her , and I like the other girl , and we are such good friends . I didnt even have a discussion with her about it because I really didnt want anything more than friendship . Months passed and I really got over that girl I was chasing , she didnt know what she wanted and I said I am done . Since then this friend started to get more physical with me than the others , I man from high fives to bro fists we started to tickle , hug and even started to cuddle . She initiated most of this , and at first I thought it was just a friendly jesture . But , one night I was expecting them a little later and a friend of mine that now likes the girl I was chasing came at my place with her to drink a beer and order a pizza ( it was on him so i had no problem) suddenly , they all arrived sooner than expected and when she saw that girl at my place again she did not talk to me all night long : Again , maybe it was my imagination . The problem was that I did not know what to do , I started to have feelings for her the closer we got and still didnt know if she just looked at me as a friend .
And so on , until one night when we where all watching a tv show , I went out with her to buy some drinks . We stopped to eat something and when we got back , our friends started to talk about some bet , It was clear that one friend made a bet with her sister and another friend that we wouldnt hook up that night . After they left , my mind spawned the following question: Ok her sister bet that we would hook up . Next day I asked her sister what was that and if I should know something , and after having to persuade her , she told me that she liked me but I was chasing that other girl . And in the middle of the discussion she threw at me that her sister is a virgin , I told her that I dont care and she knows me , I am not that kind of guy and next she asked me what about the other girl . I told her that I dont care about her anymore , and then she said that she will talk to her sister.
The next day she told me that she didnt want to talk about it and I should talk to her ( I can bet on anything that they discussed that)
So , I said its now or never , I invited her at my place and after she gave me the impression that she is more distant than usual we ended up cuddling and after I took her by the hand ... bummer ... she fell asleep . When she woke up she was in the hurry so I hesitated to do something . Today they both came into the bar , and when we left she barely gave me any attention . Well it is true that it was one of my friends birthday but still , in the car she sat on his lap , and talked to him about his girlfriend . I know that they where not hitting on each other but I didnt get the deal what made her do that , (probably because she doesnt want the others to know?)
Anyway , tomorow its their birthday , and me and the boys bought them a common gift ( but I bought a separate gift only for her) Anyone has any idea on what should I do tomorrow? I mean I really dont want to end up keeping that uber lame speech about uuh I like you , wanna be with me? I really want to do it smooth but SPAM all I can think of is just taking her in another room , giving her the gift and try to do something , hopefully not getting rejected and then causing an awkward silence . Any tips on what can I do to break this friendzone? Yeah I know that I should move on to a new one but SPAM I am tired of hooking up with girls for a 1-2 day thing and then wonder where the heck do I find them? Crap I am not going to rest untill I will turn at least one thing like this into a relationship .