Hey everyone, I'm new here!

I'm a professional sportsman so I don't have much time to go to night clubs. So I'm usually trying to game on the street when I have time. The approach part is okay, I usually get an n close. But on day 2's I just can't build comfort.

Last time I went for a coffe with a HB8 I met a few days before. She was giving me IOI-s all the time. I told her some DHV stories . She was laughing at my jokes. I threw in some negs, like 2 or 3. I was kino escalating and she reacted positively. I was talkative and there was no awkward silence. But after when we went to walk, she started to act weird. Like keeping the distance and avoiding eye contact. And always changing the subject when i tried to escalate. She sad that she's tired because she came from work and that's why she's acting like this. I couldn't K close her she didn't let me.

3 days later I called her, but she said that she has to study a lot and doesnt know when she will be free. I called her a week later and got the same answer.

What do you think where did it go wrong? I

this might be left field but almost sounds like there is a boyfriend or fresh ex on the scene. Maybe more the later. As in she like the idea of catching up with you etc but when it started to escalate she realised she wasn't ready for something to happen etc.. It doesnt sounds like you did much wrong at all, this sounds like something was going on with her

I thought about the same thing. Girls are strange sometimes

I'm not saying it was aliens, but it was ALIENS.

Sounds like you were doing good but this girl has her own things going on. You can't always trace the problem back to something you did. Sometimes there's nothing you could've done if she has made up her mind that she doesn't want you.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Thats the problem I have. I over-analyze things when I shouldn't. If you think you did well, you probably did. Move on to the next girl I would say. I had a problem with moving on to the next girl because I felt hopeless in the sense that I didn't know anyone. Now my resources are getting up there. A girl dicks me and fucks up my plans, I don't let her. I go and find a party. I live near numerous colleges and I'm telling you I'll show up by myself, end up meeting a bunch of new ppl and girls and never ever think about her ditching me. I wish I was 21 though.