Hey guys...
I'm having a kinda frame-constrol issue with this girl. I have really good frame-control and teasing... but... this girl... she steals all my stuff I'm using on her, decodes it and shoot it back at me... Heh, of course I don't fall my own stuff but it makes it really hard for me to keep a solid frame... I several times called her out on stealing my style and games and guess what... She said that this stuff is her now too. Whoa, she is really adaptive. Who the hell I'm dealing with? Overly attached girlfriend? Borg drone or even queen? Alpha female? Does any body have any idea how to deal with her without getting all stuff back from her??

Thanks guys...

Yes. Let me handle this. How do I contact this girl?

For example, last time a friend approached me and the girl and said: "Apologies, am I interrupting your romantic moment?" and I said: "It´s okay, happily we have more than enough of such moments."

She just out-gaming you it sounds like. It's alpha female shit. But your post almost sounds tongue and cheek, so I'm not sure if this is actually a real problem. She decodes something? She's keeping something and not giving it back, what???

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

No... I'm sorry... It's real problem. I mean she decodes the meaning of my material, the way how i keep the frame and so on. And she adapts always and does the same thing to me... I don't mean real stuff. I mean the methods of gaming her... I do something, she does it back... I'm not talking about real materialistic stuff. I hope you understand, I'm not native English speaker, so I might be mixing things little bit...

Your game is used to win the girl. If she uses it on you then she's winning you, which means you still win, hahaha.

Don't worry about controlling frames all the time and using NLP and all that subversive crap that allows you to dominate the interaction. If she keeps on doing this just start laughing at her and say "You're so adorable when you try to play grown up, let's go make out."

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

So you mean, that I should just let her reuse my tricks, teases even my catchphrases and just be cool and roll with it? That's what I've been doing until now... But... It's crazy, almost like I'm gaming myself... LOL

Call her out for it! Be like "Why do you always repeat what I say? Are you trying to be like me?"

It's basically like a form of pua heckling. Although I don't fully understand how she could be using the same stuff on you that you use on her, becasue it's not supposed to work both ways.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

This guy is right. Just memorize this post and you'll salvationized.

Thanks guys...I was scared about this, but... It's kinda good situation after all, isn't it? Some guys could be jealous xDxDxD I' like that post too