So I've met this HB9, here's the story:

I play the same sport as she does, and I've seen her a few times at a club. She started talking because she recognized me and we're getting along great. Now I haven't paid a lot of attention on her because she's 4 year's older and I generally don't like older girls. And besides I've heard stories of her that she's in love with this older arrogant alpha male. Monday I saw her again at the same club and we literally spent 1 hour talking to each other. Then she said she was going home and gave me a little playful kiss and asked for my number.

I just texted her because I thought I saw her giving training. Here's the convo:

ME: Hey, did I just saw you giving training?
HB: Heeey! Nope.
ME: Than it would've been *, she looks like you
HB: Yeah, that's right, was it a embarrassing wave you made?
ME: No, luckily I didn't.
ME: I wouldn't wave at you so..
HB: No? That's not nice.

(remember it's translated from dutch, so give space for a few nuances differences)

But what do I do now.. How should I respond? Some ideas?

I really don't wanna mess this up, I know this is a bad attitude, instead you should act like it doesn't mean anything but it does so...!

thanks for the help

Hi man,

Could I see the text in dutch?
Girls in Holland respond to different things than in other countries.
In the US it's allot easier to be playful with texting, Dutch girls are too sober (nuchter) for that kind of goofy [but effective] PUA stuff.

But form what I read here...
Try and be more playful with your responses.

HB: Yeah, that's right, was it a embarrassing wave you made?
ME: No, luckily I didn't.
ME: I wouldn't wave at you so..

It didn't sound all that nice to be honest, even though maybe you meant it funny, she can't interpret your feeling through a sentence.

Her last answer was; No? That's not nice.
Kick in the playful/sexual stuff.

Me: ''I know I'm bad ass, you need to spank me!''
or
Me: ''I know I'm bad..I'm gonna have to make it up to you, join me for a drink at [???] .''

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