ill give as much info as i can but i feel like its a weird situation, sorry if its a little confusing since i usually have gut feelings about things and just go with it, but this one i dont wanna fuck up this one..

i met this HB9 while at my friend megs house (megs roomate is the HBs friend).. at the time she was in a long term relationship but there was a lot of flirting between both of us.. lot of push pull and neggin on both our ends..

out of the blue, two days ago she messages me on facebook. we chit chat a bit, again negging a little bit, played a nice alpha male position and told her im getting off-line and to just text me and gave her my number.. seconds later i get her texting me.. she tells me how she got dumped last night.. we talk a little more and i tell her to come visit me at work (im a bartender)... she give give resistance, and i tell her well i gotta go to work, and hope to see her later..

i have a good feeling about the girl diggin me from all the flirting/chatting via FB and text, so when i go into work, i see my friend meg.. i told her that im gonna try and bag a new hottie and that she knows the girl.. i told her who it was, and she said i should go for it.. she also said she noticed that the HB was responding well the first time i met her... so i filled her in with what i just told you guys, and she says good luck trying to get her to come in to see me.. meg goes home to her apartment, and not even a half hour later, she texts me saying that her, her roomate, and HB are gonna come in a visit..

HB called megs roomate saying she wanted to "hang out" and that they should go out to get some drinks.. so they come in with megs gf, and another mutual AFC... i

i was crazy busy at work and had no real time to game or really talk to any of them, but meg told me that she "talked me up".. we made a lot of contact/smiling at eachother, and talked a little.. but i really couldnt do much since i was so busy.. i also had a wing at my bar drinking, told him the situation very quickly, and asked him to watch and he said it seemed like she was into me.. everyone left and the girls went out dancing for the night while i hadda finish up work..

at the end of my shift, i texted her saying sorry that i wasnt as entertaining as i could have been, and asked how the night went after they left.. (bad move?) well she responded.. we talked a little more.. i also thanked her for giving me wayy too much money as a tip.. she said she did it cause no one would let her pay for her drinks.. i told her that she could take me out to dinner and pay if she wanted to complain about it.. she said "sure maybe before you leave me "(im moving from NJ to FL at the end of the year) talked more.. ended the convo since it was late at night...


whats the move now?

i do have plans with meg and her roomate this weekend to go out, and HB knows since me and the girls since i made the plans right in front of her... should i invite her out with us? should i talk to the roomate to ask her to come out so its not at threatening?

HELP!!

lol man i think ur thinking to much into it. from what your telling me is that this chick is obviously into you. your obviously into this chick. so attraction is already there and u need to move into the comfort stage. so you need to isolate the chick. In my opinion what you should do is invite her to ur dorm house apartment whatever u live in and watch a movie. sounds junior highish but she shell be cuddled up on u because attraction is already there and cuddling is a great way for comfort and its good kino for a long time depending on a movie. before u watch the movie get ingredients to make ice cream. whip cream sprinkles all that good stuff and tell her that your gonna make eachother a bowl. its playfull and fun.

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