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after that she asked me to join her and her friends* on a fridaynight out- i said yes.
I almost always say "No, I'm too busy then" Then look to isolate for a real meet up
Basically you are now going to have to qualify yourself and DHV the whole group, and since you are the "new guy" good luck. If you pull it off its a huge plus, but I doubt you will pull it off. Even if your game is good logistics can fuck you in group settings.
I would cancel with some bullshit excuse and look to isolate. If she wont go out with you alone for coffee or drinks she is not attracted enough anyway.