Hi, i'm new to the forums so if this is in the wrong section please feel free to move it!

So basically i was dating this girl recently, 3 dates, 4th dat she flaked and i texted her saying i didn't want to see her anymore because i felt i was wasting my time. The dates were good but she barely texted me, and flaked at the last minute for the 4th date. She said;

'i just forgot about that i had made plans the other day, i do like you but i'm still feeling hurt from last relationship (which ended the day i met her). I don't want to rush anything, i just thought we could have a laugh and see where it goes but i'm not looking for something serious and i'm sorry if you are. It's up to you what happens.'

This confused me, and i didn't know how to interpret it. Btw i am looking for something serious not just an F-close. But they way i seen it as is she looking just to f*ck. And i was like 'are you just tryna have sex here?' (is this ultimate AFC?) Because the way i seen it was, there was no other outcome apart from never seeing the person again/friendship at best. Anyway she replied to that saying 'you've clearly got the wrong impression of me, that is not what i mean at all'. Should i have just took her out one more time and tried to f-close at the end of the night?

Lmfao it just looks like she wants avoid getting be named as a slut.
Many girls use this or something similar. Just keep going and say something like. Don't worry about it and enjoy
She wants to get fucked hard by u !

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haha, alright! Thanks for the advice bro.

That is bullshit mate. She is saying " this is our 3 dates and you have not fuck me yet ?" Listen buddy, would you buy a BMW without having trying yet? Anyways for me I wouldn't. So before you settle for something serious with her your want to know when she does A then B is going to happen and when she does C then D is going to happen. I do not think that you have lost the girl therefore next time you see her better close the deal or the game is over.

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