Dear Friends,

I don't want to sound arrogant, but i'm generally pretty good with woman. After a long relationship (10 years) i got single again, almost 2 years ago. And i've had a great time K&F-closing plenty of girls: HB6's, HB7's, HB8's and one HB9, all of them in their twenties (i am 34 years old).

8 months ago i met this amazing 21-year old HB9 at a party. A very sweet and serious girl. She's a hairdresser, and has been cutting my hair about every 2 weeks since we've met. I am good friends with her best female friends (in fact, it's how we met).

She broke up with a (rather) short-term boyfriend a couple of weeks ago. We've been going out more regularly since then (which always included her (female) friends that invite me all the time to join them).

Now, she's always hanging around me at every party we go to. When i text her, she usually replies within 30 seconds, she tags herself in every photo she's in on my Facebook. Last wednesday we shared her car to go partying, before that we had or first 'one-on-one' in a bar (1 hour that seemed like 1 second). When we are on the phone she won't shut up and i have to end the convo (because i am a very busy man). In short, she likes me a lot.. as a FRIEND, however.

I hug and kiss her a lot on the cheek, touch her hands, grab her arm, and she appreciates it, clearly. (Of course, i'm her fucking FRIEND).

I've tried kissing her on more than one occasion, then succesfully muscled my way out of embarrasment when she pulls back, every time..

I'd love to go out with her alone (without any other friends) but that also doesn't fly.

It's getting frustrating. I know, long post, thank you for your patience!!
Any suggestions?

Have you tried telling her that you want to be more than friends? That you're interested in her?

@Salagv2

No, i haven't at all. In fact, i've been push/pulling all the time, flirting with other girls at the parties, i don't hang around her all night but see my other friends who are there as well. I've kept my cool all the time, more or less.

why havent you told her?

@Br3ezy & @Salagv2

I do have to add that she 'ought to' know that i like her. I think it's obvious. To the mutual female friend that introduced us, i told that she's 100% my type and i'm pretty sure that feedback got to the ears of my target (since our friend can never keep her mouth shut)..

I say go ahead and tell her, next one on one you guys are on or next time you're alone at a party, just casually mention something along the lines of "you know [insert her name], you're very cute and i hope you know that i'm into you as more than friends"

Something to tell her that you see her as more than just a friend and i always like to add in a genuine compliment as well.

Small update..: I froze her out for 4 days, got tagged on Facebook with a couple of other beautiful girls..

& tonight she put a picture of her and me on my FB-wall.. (a pic taken 4 weeks ago in a bar)

Tomorrow i'm going to a party, and she might be there too.. Well, good luck to myself, then ;o)