| Sorry, I am new to this forum, not sure if I should post this here. Please take time to help me out, deeply appreciate it.
The first 4 paragraphs is the history of what's going on. Skip to 5th paragraph for the problem.
There is this girl (classmate for 3 years) who is my one-itis, we have been friends for around 3 years,around the first year we met, I confessed to her (ruined it by being a total AFC). She told me that I was a very nice guy, we had a lot in common and she is still in love with her ex, lastly she said what will be will be. Knowing I have stepped into the friendzone, I decided to forget about her.
Luckily, we were in different modules so I did not get a chance to see her everyday like I used too. During this period, she got back with her ex again. So I managed to get her out of my mind, avoiding all contacts, even when we were in the same class again, I kept conversations to minimal.
Well currently,in Year 3 semster 1 (she broke up with her ex), we are in the same class again, as usual I never spoke to her, however this was the period I learnt about pickup, hence I made some major change in my looks and the way I talk (tone and pauses added). On my birthday, I went to a night club with my friends and she came along. She gave me a hug ( which had never ever happened before, due to the fact that before I was a total AFC, never Escalating kino) and the following day, she celebrated my birthday with me out (this sparked up some feelings within me again)
A month later, we both had a job together. During that 20days, I tried to work on my game of escaping the friendzone, I escalated kino, flirt using push-pull (works like a charm). I started to see lots of IOIs coming from her and kino.
HERE is the problem, a couple of nights ago, me, my guyfriend and her went to a night club. I have been to her only twice to night clubs and this night was weird. When we were at the bar, we drank and flirt. When going into the dance floor she quickly grabbed my hand and led the way in( this had never happened before). At the dance floor when my guy friend wasn't around, she suddenly hugged me for a full 20seconds without saying anything, after the club she held my hand wherever we went. After which I sent her home and gave her a hug.
Last night, we went to a club again, we ended early, when sending her home, she didn't want to enter her house as she was a little drunk, so I sat with her and we chat. She started to told me secrets, she never told anyone about it (so I guess this would be where I build rapport with her right?). We chatted for 3 to 4 hours and she never wanted to leave. So I stupidly took this opportunity and confessed to her. She was like, this again? I could see she showed negativity, hence i tried to persuade her. She told me this, this is really not the time for this ( she just rejected one of her close friend about 2 weeks ago). She told me that she didn't felt like she wants to be tied down again ( by the relationship she and her ex had before). I asked her if there would ever be a chance for us to be together, she told me that she cant say yes ( she is afraid she will be giving my false hope ) but then she said she cant say no chance either ( WHAT DOES THIS MEAN? i tried to question her about it, she never give me a proper reply). In the end, she just said that it is not a good time now.
So how do i proceed from here?
Thanks for spending your kind attention reading my problem.
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