We have had a great connection and she is a really sweet girl. She is the most well rounded person I have ever dated. I know I have her on a pedestal.

Any ideas on how to escalate?

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Honestly, the way you characterize her, you're going to set yourself up for disappointment. You're beginning to value her too highly, and then questioning your capabilities as a provider, and you're questioning your health and career. You're willing to change and become a better person for this ONE girl. It's great that you think this way, but it's in the wrong context. You should change and become a better person for YOURSELF. Because it will attract more women.

Personally I don't think you're ready for a relationship.

But just reframe yourself as a couple, do romantic dates, be a 'nice' guy, and see how she reacts.

Don't talk about a relationship until she does, if you talk first, you give her control.

Vietnamese Prodigy

I think you are totally right. Thanks for the feedback. I really hate it when I reach out to people for a reality check and they just tell me I am filled with 'limiting beliefs'.

It was unexpected meeting her. Just want to enjoy as much of it as I can.

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