I wasn't sure where should i put this, but in this day and these circumstances i decided to put this in to mid game section.



THE BEGINNING
I met a girl in the summer about 4 months ago. We saw each other few times, 2-3 days in a row because she lives about 250miles from me. At first everything was better than anything else before and we said that to each other. I kinda fucked things up in bed and I myself thought/think that was the reason why we "broke up"

NO CONTACT FOR 2 MONTHS'

COUPLE OF WEEKS AGO
We met at the night club in my hometown. I kinda tell her to fuck off and that kind of stuff and then apologized all that. After lots of talking in the end of the night we kissed (Now you guys should know she has a boyfriend who is about 40 years old, allmost 10 years older than we are). On the next morning we're texting and I acted pretty cocky. She said kissing was the best ever etc etc... Also that she broke up with me because "You still act like you wanna explore the world ang girls"

PRESENT DAY
I've been texting to her few times in a week and I made up a story that I got a date who want's to start a relationship with me. I think this worked because "You've turned pretty cold in last few months "

MAIN QUESTION
My plan is to keep myself as cocky as I could and DHV myself slowly

But I will definitely need some help from you guys:

1) How to keep myself away from the friend zone in long term ?
2) How to raise my value other ways than "I'm not that into you"?
3) Examples to slowly or affectionately create our private "wonderland" by texting/calling because I think ladies love these "our things" stories

I'm more than appreciated for all the answers ![/b]