hey guys,

I met this girl (HB 9~9.5) at a party and I got her number (we go to the same university). Anyway after texting and texting I asked her one night to go out with me for dinner and she told me that she had already gotten dinner. I didn't text for about 8 days and I started texting her again. It was friday so I knew that she was free and I asked her "what later plans do you have for today?" but the girl wasn't on campus she had gone home for the weekend ( and she kinda answered that like it was a lifesaver she had gone home because she is too damn afraid to get separated from her friends and just be alone with me). Anyway the whole "connection" kinda got cold between us and I saw the girl many times in the uni. cafeteria but the thing is that she gives me this IOIs she likes me whenever I see her (like strong long hugs, smiling all the time, complimenting me) but for some reason she is very cold in texting and takes a long time to answer them. I texted her today and she answered one of my texts but not the second one. Later in the day though I saw her after I got out of my uni gym and she was on the phone, she just gave me a smile and she just kept walking. I know that as a rule you should abandon her if she flakes twice, but she just flaked once on me so should I ask her out one more time or just forget about her and start hunting other ones? Why do you think she is doing this? Maybe not as interested/attracted as I am on her?

Really looking forward to your answers guys.

the final characteristic of a alpha male/pua is the ability to walk away. so my advice to you is to stop texting her and trying to contact her and see if she contacts you... if not then shes not interested and move on

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Jeeves Elliot

If the girl doesn't contact you she gets nothing from you. No sex, no flowers, no dates paid for, no companionship--nothing, nada, zilch. Unless you are really doing things to put her off, its hard to imagine why a girl wouldn't want to be with a guy who can give her those things. However, there is a reason for it. There are a million other guys out there she can probably get, and she's taking a chance that they will be better than you, otherwise why wouldn't she be content with you? This is a reflection of her perception of your value. She's a 9.5 for a girl, and you're what...maybe an 8 for a guy? She probably feels like she can find a guy who is a 9 and is willing to hold out for that. Girls don't have the pressing sex drive that guys do, so they can be content sitting idly by and be super selective just waiting for Mr. Right to stumble across her path one day.

Another possibility is that there is already another guy in the picture, irregardless of whether or not he is better than you. He's taking up all her time and she's not able to share any of it with you. That's why we as guys can't get caught up with rejection. We can only strive to be the best versions of ourselves and continue on by gaming more women.

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