| I set a date with a woman on day she was leaving on a holiday. Told her to be at her place at xx.xx time on a given day. This was obv after she got back from a holiday. Got an insta reply that she booked her calendar with a smiley.
Now, it gets interesting. Three days to the trip, was Monday. I knew that they had some big thing discussions in the company about layoffs. In that morning I saw a study in a tabloid that we both read that the guys in that country where she traveled have the smallest d1cks in Europe. We've joked about this and sex adventures of a common friend in that country before. That should be hilarious, she always gets this stuff.
About five hours later I get a reply that she got laid off, that she doesn't really need these kinds of messages, they're not really uplifting the mood. I bypassed this potential sh1t test and just replied that these guys are idiots and she will have a long paid winter holiday at least. She sent some blaablaa back, I sent a message about going together to an employment office with a smiley. No reply. Whatever
I don't give a shit about replys, I text her when I want and refuse to play games like you text, I text etc. Send her a funny text about a rubber duck in the evening (inside joke), she responds by two really short ones quickly and goes cold.
Now, I'm like whatever, she's having a hard time and I give her some space until she gets over it. Three days later I decide to use the "Stop!" -message for the first time. I actually think it's quite funny way and frankly I just wanted to lift her spirits a bit. She responds by "?? If you're talking about the textings, work stuff xxx and xxx comes before you". I ignore this and respond that "stop thinking about me, you're doing it right now. Stop." Again, insta reply stating "yea you caught me". Now this is sarcastic, it's even offensive.
Now, during the holiday I've sent her seven texts, got returned five, out of which ONE was of a positive note. I get fed up of her attitude and respond that "Listen, I've done nothing bad to you. Tuesday is off." Tuesday was the date we agreed before her holiday. I was really disappointed in the moment that somebody would talk to me in a passive-aggressive way like that and try to release her anger on me. Naturally, I won't accept this.
Now, it has been three days after my latest message and she has not responded. I know that she is coming back this evening. I want to make it sure for her that this kind of behavior is unacceptable and she can not afford to pull this shit again. I want to see her again, if she will actually behave. Otherwise I'm ready to throw this in a muck.
So, what is the play here? I feel like the ball is on her court, but I'm not really sure if she's interested at the moment due to work stress and recent break-up with ex-bf to contact me. I should mention that we were farking before she dumped her bf and moved to her own flat. During this time she was a lot warmer than now.
Is this a typical NC situation or am I missing something?
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