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| ruudhouse | PostPosted: Sun Aug 18, 2013 10:30 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Jun 02, 2013 9:43 am Posts: 12 | | Please advice.
Lately I have been dating several girls... Recently I met 1 girl on a meditation retreat...which is the perfect place. She's gorgeous, and I have fallen head over heals. She knows I was dating different women at the time I met her, and last week went to Rome with a girlfriend of mine. Of course this sparked her interest even more.
Had a date with her yesterday, made her laugh, took her too the zoo, and with many jokes she poked me... Saying "I don't care about looks anymore, but more about the inside" is a killer, if you present it with a wink....especially if she's a model type..
But she remains at a distance...yesterday I approached her more close, and she told me...be careful before you begin and walked away... She did send me a link by phone with ideas for spiritual holidays, and we have both got exactly the same future plans...
The thing is... I get nervous around her, which never happens with girls...
Should I let her approach a little...take the initiative...or let her come to me now..
My mind seems like mashed braincells now. I do have the feeling that all these pua tricks didn't work on her... (reminded me of the girl in the Game that Style eventually ended up with...) Please advice from clear thinking human beings...
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| Tr@veler | PostPosted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 12:10 pm | |
Joined: Sun Aug 14, 2011 10:22 am Posts: 1200 Location: London | | What do you want? Do just that.
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| Artwork | PostPosted: Thu Aug 22, 2013 12:17 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri May 17, 2013 9:58 pm Posts: 8 | | Well the last thing you want is to end up in the friend zone. Sound like you've let her know your intentions already though. Keep doing that. She probably won't be too hyped on things like gettin tricked into a kiss. But definitely escalate kino and if it feels natural go for the kiss. Worst comes to worse she turns her head and laughs then u land one on her cheek, or better yet neck. The most important thing to remember when you're sitting next to a girl is to escalate kino and hold eye contact. The worst scenario is sitting next to her with a foot or two between you while you're staring at her and she's looking straight ahead away from you. The best way to get past this barrier is with negs combined with kino. And remember don't be worried about crossing the line of playful friend kino to sensual hook up kino. That's what'll get you out of the friend zone.
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| odyn | PostPosted: Thu Aug 22, 2013 1:00 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Mon Jun 10, 2013 12:59 pm Posts: 308 | | I think many people put to much on k closing. Not that big of deal, just don't think about it and let it happen. There is no time limit and so long as she is thinking about you in a sexual manner and knows you want more than friends then its not a problem. That being said you have to man up some time, usually I go for the all or nothing approach, kclose when she is isolated and I know things can go further. Many people may disagree but why start kissing if your not going to f close? In any case just stop thinking about it, stop being nervous, she's just another girl, and go when you feel the time is right. GOOD LUCK
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| ruudhouse | PostPosted: Sat Aug 24, 2013 7:00 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Jun 02, 2013 9:43 am Posts: 12 | | Thanks a lot guys... This is helptful.
We still have some contact...send her some texts saying it was about time i'd kiss her neck and we should meet up. She said she'd like that, so I am defninately in... Let's try to remain cool next time and just try to do what normally always works...that kino...
I feel next time I just want to walk up to her... look deep in her eyes, grab her head, and just overwhelm her like a man. I feel that's kind of what she wants...a strong man who isn't afraid to show that he wants her, not some half ass approach... She is a strong independent woman and doesn't take shit from no one...
Maybe she wants to hear she's the only one, and she kind of knows that I am dating around...which would stop the moment she becomes my girl...
Thanks guys..
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