Hi,

A girl i know (HB9+) clearly one of the most beutiful girls i ever seen is now back from half a year military course.

Now there are some problems:

-she is exreamly shy (20 and never had a bf or anything)

-she is a friendzone machine which means anyoone who tried fell to the FZ

opening shouldntt be a prob sience i already know her.

Any advices on how i should handle it?

Oh and i do have her on fb and #

don't go into this with the hopes that you will have sex with her, go into this with the hopes to really get to know her well and express that you are attracted to her, flirt with her, hit on her, show her a fun time, try to have sex with her, it either ends in sex, or it doesn't, it either ends in you making a strong connection with another person or it doesn't, it's all relative to you and to her, and to what both of you have to offer as opposed to what you both value, just give it your best shot and keep improving yourself

don't get caught up on one girl, she's just a girl in a sea of many

I've noticed that if you're talking to someone, honesty is the best policy, if you don't have anything to say, don't, just explain the situation and what you're trying to do (you can make up a fake frame or reveal only a part of your plans eg. getting to know her and not really knowing where to start.)

Acting like this should create a deeper emotional bound if she's really shy.

Just tell her what you want, how you feel, what you think of life, make jokes with her, roleplay (carrots? cats?), be real and never try to be in the complete "SAFE zone", talk about things that could actually change something between you too, something that would create thoughts, feelings or confusion in her.

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Those are the best.
Or they are easy and you get what you want very easily are very cautious and make you give your ver best (for educational purposes, they are great )

And feel like a jerk for using her afterwards.

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Thanks everyone for the comments.
no oneitis here hehe , though girls like that are extremly rare O_o
I acctually like the 'being honest additude' though I'm not sure how direct i should be without making it all awkward
Yeah.. I don't really intend to use her, she is a really nice girl and I'm not really a jerk so...

Sorry for my english

To use her to learn some lessons doesn't necessarily means to be a jerk or to treat her bad.