I haven't been playing the game for a while... When I returned.. women are always asking me out? Don't get me wrong, I don't hate it. I get a huge ego boost from it and I love that. But I discourage it for the woman I wish to spend time with... The man should be the one making this type of move.. am I wrong? Other women (i use it as an opener from time to time) say "clinger alert". Within 1 month I've been asked out 3 times. I've had 4 or 5 total ask me out. I feel they don't trust that I can get what I want! If I liked you.. I would ask you. You see how I carry myself.. I get what I want! But make me work for what I want or you will be replaced very quickly. I am not out there for quick lays.. I actually want a relationship.

Situation 1. I knew this girl for less than 3 minutes and she asked for my name so she could find me on facebook.. then before leaving she said "so coffee sometime?" like it was a done deal! I turned her down.

Situation 2. I liked this older woman for a while, she just broke up with someone but I didn't know she was dating anyone.. this one I was okay with because she knew I thought she was gay. I accepted and we had a great 2 weeks.

Situation 3. I was trying to seed an event and she tried to jumped the gun. So I interrupted her and said something like.. "I totally forgot, I have something to do" (this totally being a push-pull and delaying it for another day where she would ALLOW ME to do the man's job.)

Guys, tell the women you are with to chill! I see myself as being good.. but what is going on with this huge change? How many of you experience the woman doing this? And how should I feel when it happens?