Week-long lurker, first-time poster. Just got out of a three-year LTR, little rusty, trying to get back into the game.

I've hung out with this girl a few times, we click pretty well but I am having problems getting kino going. I got some good ideas from the forum, but beyond nudging me and similar she is just not responding to basic kino - guiding her through crowds, putting my arm around her, that kind of thing. She isn't responding negatively, but not positively either, just sort of neutral and maybe even disinterested. But we connect pretty well, and after each time we hang out she shoots me a flirty email and text messages trying to figure out when we're going to hang out again. My problem, I think, is kino and getting her to reciprocate. Again, I am pretty rusty.

I have other prospects so one-itis isn't a problem, but for various reasons I am really trying to make it work with this chick, and am worried about getting friend zoned. Any ideas, links or forum threads which might be helpful? Thanks guys.

where do you hang out? go clubbing! kino is so easy there well easier than a coffee shop.. take her hand spin her or if she isn't dancing grab her hand and make her fist pump (i also use that one if theres two girls and one is feeling awkwardly left out like a third wheel and I don't have a wing) and to be honest im shit at dancefloor game but it works well..

remember you need to be alpha and lead do you have drive or are you still feeling down after your last break up? work out, eat healthy don't fap and this will get your drive going more pheromones and shit she will be all over you in no time

Haha, neither of us are much for clubbing, we are much more low key. We are hanging out tomorrow night at my place so something is going to happen. She is asking to come over so it is kind of ridiculous that kino hasn't gotten going yet. Just need to figure out how.

Dude, if she is allowing you to continue to kino her and not pulling away or showing negative body language but no positive as well, you want to continue to escalate the keno! Target less "friendly" areas to touch. Lower back, sides, neck, and face.

Be confident. Be sure of yourself and your touches. Get close to her. Eye contact is huge. Come off like you're a touchy kind of guy. Don't make it feel forced and make it natural.

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thats even better because essentially that's where you want to end up
look man she sounds interested.. like idyllic says eye contact is your friend here
just play it cool.. its easier if you get her to iniate..
neg her in a funny way so she punches you and shit or steal her phone so she grabs you to get it back (especially if another guy texts her) in a "oh let me see that" kind of way

Thanks guys, everything turned out fine. Just had to keep on pushing forward.