Hello everyone,

Here's an issue that I have faced with a few girls in the past year. From HB9s t0 5s. I've noticed my game starts off high in energy, engaging and interactive but in time starts to dim out in energy and engagement after the a first few good meetings/conversations/texts. Now this is typically after a 2-4 round of communication exchange which typically is like:

1st round: meet at wedding/bar/friend's place/etc...talk, shes interested, get her number/she adds me on facebook

2nd round: exchange sms's/facebook messages/gchats/pictures/etc. This happens 1-3 times after which the idea of meeting up becomes the next thing to do

3rd round: then I/she invites to catch up for dinner/movie/performance/walk in the park/etc whatever. Now if its a last minute date like...lets meet today evening then it works out but...somehow if it like lets meet after 3-4 days, during the 3-4 days before the meeting I don't have much say. So invariably all the interest that I had generated pre3viously starts to fade away...and during the 3-4 days till the date, I don't message so as not to appear too interested/needy; also I don't have much to say.

So here's the problem: what mindset would be a good one to have while staying in touch with the girl(like messaging after a week or two) and also what mindset would be good to have to keep a high level of interest, involvement and energy level while prepping for a date in the next 3-4 days or week. examples of what to say would be fine and specific but I think a state of mind will help me more so I can tailor make the communications with her based on the past conversations.

Thanks!

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rambonot

this happens to the best of us man and it's a bitch
if she senses that your'e giving a fuck/being needy/being boring/being a creep you will notice this happening...

the mindset you need is "i am an attractive busy man with plenty of options"
if this isn't you then you need to try convey it somehow

just simple things like..
don't reply to messages instantly
don't react to shit tests or get upset over anything she says
don't arrange to meet up too early
when arranging to meetup try make it as casual as possible

fake it till you make it.. it's better to hint at liking her than actually telling her, try not to get oneitis..