Finally got some kino going w/ this new girl a few nights ago and everything was going well; she even admitted catching feelings (i played it cool, of course). But towards the end of the night she comes out saying she wants to take things slow. That caught me off guard; I didn't have anything witty to say, and all I could do was play it off like it didn't matter. This ever happen to anyone? How do I get this moving and how can i bust her balls about it?

As I wrote in another post, I have other prospects so i'm not being short-sighted with this chick, but she is legit and i am tryin to make it happen.

Hi man.

«...But towards the end of the night she comes out saying she wants to take things slow...»

But what happened before she said that? I mean,i just want to know if you showed "anti-pua" moves like showing to much interest or trying to rush things... normally when that happens it means that you tried to jump to seduction phase before she feels confortable and secure with you. Or she is just shit-testing you. But you must give more detail.

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Hey man, i'm new to the forum so i don't know what type of details ppl give in their stories. I don't think I was showing too much interest, if anything i was either reciprocating or showing less interest level for level compared to what she was showing. She wasn't responding positively to my kino and seemed kind of disinterested, but definitely wasn't responding negatively up to that point. So maybe i was rushing things. I am trying to figure out how to approach this from here on out.

What is shit-testing? Haha. If she was testing me, i must have failed because i was so thrown off by it all i did was try to play it off.