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Hello PUA forum members
So ive got this 10 whose been showing interest but obviously.. shit testing me haha (so cute.....)
What would PUAs (notice i said PUAs) say/react when a 10:
she is just a person, treat her based on how she behaves, not on how she looks, her being a 10 is subjective to you and is more relevant to you then it is to her, or how ''she should be gamed'', she should be gamed by you the same way you game any other girl, with confidence and congruence
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1. yells at you to "shut up" in class (even if... you had not said a word to her already)
remain congruent, if it was me probably would just ignore it, or say, ''make me'' depending on her tone
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2. goes on the offensive tip and says stuff like "what if i threw u over this bridge?!" (we were walking on a campus bridge..)
do you have communication skills, or know how to shit talk/re-frame situations? you don't have to buy into her threads and react to her, just say what you want to say what you find appropriate and fun to say in the situation, may not be the same as someone else, and if you use a ''line'' by someone else, it may be incongruent for you and make you look utterly socially retarded since it doesn't suite your style of character
if it was me, I'd probably say, ''what if I took you with me and managed to swing you around so that I landed on top of you, killing you, but saving me?''
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What are some Good (notice i said Good) comebacks to these?
this is relative to the persons personal taste, often good comebacks have almost nothing to do with the verbal content, and everything to do with the emotional content and framework under which they are given, some guys can say the most tactless retarded shit that is not even close to clever, but say it with utter confidence from a great frame work, and it turns out halarious and gets a great emotional response just because of their timing and belief in themselves, and other guys can brain storm some amazing witty joke for 2 weeks, write it down thinking it is awesome, then deliver it as they planned to a group, but be all self concious about it and the joke bombs so fucking terribly bad
the context under ''how'' you say things, is more important then ''what'' you say, and if you subjectively view a comeback as good, doesn't mean she will share your same subjective view, but as a rule of thumb, say what you think is awesome at the time for yourself, rather then what you think is awesome at the time for her, don't try to impress her, impress yourself, if you're pulling shit out of your ass that you have trouble not laughing at, or you think is badass, and it emotionally stimulates you and makes you feel good, then chances are it will go over pretty well as long as you have full belief it will
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**If you've ever countered any bitch shields please do not be afraid to share your story... not only for me... but for man kind. ayyyy
seems like this girl is flirting more then giving you bitch shield, bitch shield is when you try to open a girl you don't know, and she gets nervous and goes into fight or flight, so she tries to blow you off in a rude way without even giving you a chance to talk to her, this girl in your post more seems like she is willing to talk to you, and she is even fun and likes to fuck around with people, she's just teasing you for fun, just tease her back and have fun yourself
if you can't ever think of a witty comeback, just agree with her statement and blow it out of context with something, you can even just over exagerate exactly what she says
example:
her: hey, look how stupid medpickup looks, he should shut up
you: look, guys I'm a fucking retard, I'll never speak again (then flip the script and make fun of her back, stay in control of your emotions, and you will control the frame)
GOOD LUCK