Yo so a couple weeks ago I managed to convince my ex gfs best friend to come out clubbing with me and some friends. After spending 10 minutes of my time with her in the clubrun I knew we were definitely going to fuck or at least make out.

night = awesome, end of night = me having sex with her on a beach.

Anyway, in the morning she stated it was a one-time drunken thing and that it won't be happening again. However she has definitely changed since it happened. She definitely texts me more, infact the ratio has gone from 0:1 (me texting her every so often to come out) to 2:1 (her texting me twice for my 1 text)

I recently went to a festival which she also went to with my ex gf. She kept trying to meet up with me secretly as my taste in music matches hers more then my exe's.

Other stuff she did at festival:

1) Moaned a couple times that I hadn't responded to any of the texts she had sent me to meet up/how I was (turned ma phone off to save battery)

2) Made me promise to go see a band with her at a concert some time.

3) Seemed more touchy feely then usual.

Been back a couple days and now the texts are kinda getting flirtatious again.

her: Hows being home?

me: clean, full of food and feeling awesome. u?

her: thats good, I went out last night so feeling tired, hungry and lazy (She had invited me out for this a week before, I forgot and would have probably been way too tired)

(24 hours later)

me: You best of stopped being lazy and tired now, you owe me a concert!

Her: I haven't only had 3 hours sleep. I thought you were playing? I've had a look actually no concerts near us SPAM

I assumed paying had been autocorrected to playing.

me: Dirty autocorrect there, very smooth! As I've said before, if you want to get all sexist and make me pay for stuff then you gotta clean some dishes. It's only fair

her: haha wasn't autocorrect...oooo depends on what your cooking?

Personally I think this is leading to more sex/her becoming interested in me. For guys with experience in shagging/getting with an ex gfs best friend...how big is the risk here? She did also state several times at the festival when I asked if it would be cool to come drink at their tents that it wasn't but my ex needs to get over it already.

Well the good thing is that when I was going out with my ex she used to rant and rave how awesome at cooking I am, how good in bed I am and she spent a lot of time giving me attention thus showing how interesting I can be. So she can't really bitch about me but hey.

How would you stay out of the middle? I mean if the girl says to me "Oh blahdeblah told me not to trust you" Do I just go with some passive shit like "Oh well shes entitled to that opinion but you obviously trust me and thats what matters"

I'm also set for when/if she says "I don't think we should be doing this, your my best friends ex" Il just wing off the old "I know what you mean, I feel wrong doing it too but I can't help myself"

Things seem to be going very well, think shes trying to get away being all innocent but knows shes being a bad friend/girl.

...playing the food game...

Her: Il choose the satay, can't wait to hear the dessert choice.

Me: Good, I make an amazing satay, sexy strawberries or spotted dick haha

Her: Are these euphemisms or not? either way il choose the strawberries, I want to find out what they entail.

Me: Trying to spoil my fun with your suspicions. Sexy strawberries? well their provided in a dirty, sexy way ofcourse

Haven't heard anything back in ages. Either I went over the line or shes feeling guilty.

thoughts?

Update: problems in the horizon

Me: good choice I make a bangin stirfry, sexy strawberries or spotted dick?

Her: are these euphemisms? Anyway il choose the strawberries as I want to see what they entail

Me: Both :O dessert now entails chocolate, cream and the best strawberries in town...they're orgasmic!

Her: why type of cream?

Me: your full of q's, well you don't deserve any kind of cream

Her: I know just want to know what I'm in for.

Me: you'll be in for surprises no matter what, you've been naughty that's why.

Personally I don't think I've done much wrong just that possibly the "feeling bad" about exgf and such is overpowering SPAM. Either way I'm planning to freeze out for a couple days. Gonna be in London anyway

If anyone sees a problem with the game then let me know