So let me start by saying that this girl comes from a uptight somewhat-old fashioned community, or social circle. So this just means that you have to game her like 5x longer for the same results with a normal girl. I generally have a rule where you shouldn't have real conversations with a girl through text, but this is the only way with this girl, as it would be a lot harder to take her out alone due to her old fashioned social circle and family. Below this paragraph I'm going to post some highlights of the text conversation and I want to know how I should take it.
I started gaming her maybe two weeks ago, good conversations, I usually initiate though.
After two days of not talking she initiated conversation at around 12AM with very very VERY fast replies, like always under a minute.
Girl: blah
Me: What? (didnt understand her)
Girl: blah blah
Me: I really don't understand what you're saying... you know you don't need an excuse if you want to text me. (At this point I understood what she said, just pretended like I didn't)
(random conversation)
Me: Are you okay? (I like to ask this randomly when I get certain vibes, I feel it gives me a very "mind-reader" type of aura).
Girl: I think... why?
Me: I have a sixth sense, and it's tingling like spider man. It works on all girls except the boring ones.
Girl: Weird... because I have a sixth sense too, except it doesn't ever work on you. I can't quite figure you out, but you're right.
Me: So what's wrong? (I hesitated asking this because I felt I was putting myself in the friend zone)
Girl: *vent, vent, vent*... I don't usually vent to people... (Is it okay if she vents to me?)
Me: Aww poor baby :[ (I said this again because of the whole friend zone issue)
Girl: Sarcasm?
Me: haha just playing with you.
(random conversation about work)
Me: Promise me something?
Girl: Maybe... what is it?
Me: (She works at a furniture store, and I negged her a bit about staying there for the rest of her life) When you become manager at your job, can you give me a free pillow? I love pillows, I love to cuddle with them. Idc what you say, I'm a man, and I love to cuddle.
Girl: You're so strange! Like incredibly strange! Everything you say is a complete twist from what I think you will say.
Me: And you love it.
Girl: It keeps me on my toes.
(random conversation, its 2AM now)
Girl: I have to go to sleep. I'm in a bad mood.
Me: (I didn't respond, wasn't planning on it)
Girl: (5 minutes later, which is unusual with her, considering it's usually a 1 minute response) ...
Me: Didn't you say you have to go to sleep?
Girl: I did, night.
Me: Leave
Me: Me
Me: Alone
Me: Sweet dreams
Girl: will do
Was that last part too harsh on my part? I think it was and I was planning on apologizing, should I?
Overall question: is she into me? Or am I getting friend zoned because she was venting to me. Tell me what you guys think. Thanks in advance.
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