Hey Everyone!
First time poster, hoping for some assistance.

I'll give you a bit of background, I met this girl when she came to check out one of my properties. We hit it off, had a good convo she complained to me about her bf troubles and I made fun of her. I emailed her later to escalate and she was flirting hard.

She told me she couldn't hang though, because she's still in a relationship.
I shot her a funny email a couple of days later and she agreed to hang out.. and invited me to meet her and her friend out at a bar tonight.

I decided I'd give it a go.. We exchanged a couple of emails and I think I turned it too sexual too quickly and scared her off a bit.

Her last email responded to my tease "stop flirting with me". With flirting? "I have to get to bed now, sweet dreams". I haven't responded yet because I want to think of something to escalate the banter again.

Someone give me some killer direction!

thanks!

j

dude i think u may have given too many indicators of interest nd dats y she got a bit freaked out. u shud give some time off nd email her a good story of something dat just happened 2 u. tell her u had 2 give sum blood nd went wid a frnd 2 the hospital.blood scares u nd ur frnd was mekin fun of u wen u wer twitching. suddenly u hear a noise. guess wat happened? ur frnd himself fainted at the sight of blood. nd u med fun of him all the way home. this is the basic layout of a true life event of mine. structure the language in a fun but not a flirtatious way. see how she responds. good luck

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Zardari

Thanks for the response.. But I'm not sure that's accurate, most of our convo has been CNF so far. Also, the plans are for tonight, so I'm just looking for a fun flirty mystery builder to get her thinking about me as she's getting ready for the night.

Push pull. Right now you are just pulling. Make yourself unavailable. Catstring theory. Once she knows you aren't going to chase her, she'll chase you.

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Nice.. Any suggestions?

I agree with puaninja. We want things which are scarce. Arrive late at the bar and leave early. pretend u have to go to another party or something. but it is essential you have fun with her when you are there. Just when she is stimulated most by your charming personality, leave so that she keeps on wanting more. lol

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Zardari

Active disinterest. You can email her, or go out to the bar with her, but don't do anything flirtatious or physical. You want her to be telling her girlfriend something to the effect of: "I like him, but I can't tell if he likes me anymore."

Doing this hot and cold routine will keep her on her toes. Maybe tell a DHV laced story about how your ex recently called you, like she's trying to get back with you. Make the girl jealous and uncertain as to whether you even like her. She'll see that you are making the effort to communicate with her, even hang out, but she'll realize that SHE has to do something if she wants the interation to progress into something physical. And if you push too hard, backpedal and drop some IOIs again to re-attract her.

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