So I met this chick a while back, she came to one of my bands show's and we went to a party later that night. We made out afterwards and parted ways. We made plans to hang out during the week, she flaked, so I went and saw a movie with another girl and posted about it on facebook knowing that she'd see it. Then threw a party at my house later in the week and she called and wanted to come. She was all over me at the party, I ended up taking her into my room, made out and started fingering her, she stopped me and told me she had been hurt a lot. I told her it was fine, sex wasn't a big deal to me and i'd still like her in the morning, she said she liked me too then we made out a bit more and went back to the party. We made plans to hang out a couple days later, and I made her promise not to ditch out. When I texted her if our plans were still on she didn't reply until way later, saying "Hey I'm really sorry I didn't text you back, i've been busy all day." I had band practice and went to the lake so I didn't really care.

I havent replied, not really sure what to say even. I was thinking something just like "Yea, its chill." But I wanted to see what you guys think my next move should be. I like this girl, but the whole flakiness just makes me want to fuck her and move on.

meh, not really a big deal, she is still comming out with you, when you notice that this is happening as a re-occuring theme as in 3x in a row and she keeps having excuses, then it is a problem, but just once in a bit and she is just justifying why is probably just her being busy with something, don't take is personally, especially if she is under 24 (most young chicks are flakey)

just keep inviting her out without getting needy, and just keep escalating, you can also start qualifying her on the meetups, saying things like, ''are you sure you can make it, on blah blah, so and so wants to watch a movie'' or w/e, you can qualify her in any way you want, just get her to give you feedback that she will be there and doesn't have a reason to flake, then when she does flake, you can bring up what she qualified to and tease her or withdraw and blow her off the next time she wants your attention, if she has an issue with being blow off just repeat back the time she qualified so she knows how it feels, flip the script so to speak (be careful with this, I have had this work out great, but I have also left a chick butthurt from this, so use reverse flaking at your own discression), but other then that a girl that flakes in a serious pattern is often a waste of time, there is no pattern here yet, just signs that this girl has a life beyond hanging out with you

GOOD LUCK