Hey, here's my theory on future pacing, its a great idea and seems to make logical sense to place a girl in situations where you meet up again, but what if the girl your talking to doesn't want to meet up again and just wants a one night stand? would this not scare a girl like that off, because she might be thinking, "i don't want to get myself into a relationship and he's going on about all this stuff we can do together, I'm going to bail out now while i can"

Is that not what would enter a girls head?

Please help and share your opinions, thanks.
Lambo.

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to do something they didn't want to. It only enables them to do what
they've always wanted but repressed."
'Style'.

I think you are over thinking it. Any girl who just wants a one night stand is going to be willing to say "sure" to whatever reasonable future plan you make assuming you are also going to blow it off like she is.

Think billiards, the best players always hit the ball with their next shot in mind. It doesn't always line up perfect, but it sure makes the next opportunity much easier to act on. With skill and a little bit of luck, all balls are where they belong, in the pockets.

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Ahh I get you man, makes sense alright! and i like the metaphor you used to explain it lol balls in pockets, very creative haha thanks anyway man!

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"Alcohol has never caused anyone
to do something they didn't want to. It only enables them to do what
they've always wanted but repressed."
'Style'.