I've been dating allot lately, everything is going ok (still allot to improve, but nothing to complain. Most of the time k-close, sometimes f-close.

But my fucking problem is, that after one date they always expect more. They believe we could be starting a relationship etc. I just want to have fun and sex. Now there are to many girls and i'm not well organized enough to handle all of those girls.

How do you guys deal with this, how do you say: you just want to have fun nothing more?

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I really need some advice guys!

Now these girls are fucking up my social circle saying i'm a player and rude and blablabla..

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You only live once!

be honest and tell them the truth it will earn you respect!
be like this ....

Tell her that she is a good person and everything is in check even try to find out her good qualities that most guys wouldn't notice and tell her that you see that in her ....it will show her that you actually took the time to get to know her but say that you are at the stage of your life where you don't feel ready to get into something more serious. that way you still stay friends but it keeps your options open to her if she is a hottie and if anything remember she has friends so you want to keep on her good side if you want to tap that too

Sweet thanks! I'll give have it a try. But: during gaming/dates I always bring up that i'm not ready for relationships (Always!) And I just want to have fun etc.. but they just don't want to hear/understand it. But prob your right and this is the best answer if they show me they expect more.

Thanks allot!

Cheers

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