A few months ago me and my friend started to study pua, so we started to do bets to motivate each other so one of the bets was to just randomly start talking to a girl on facebook we never talked too, and first one to seduce her to a K-close won. Well this girl HB8 dated for like 2 months (im 18 shes 17) Never had sex with her, just making out etc. The reason i didnt have sex with her was because she was virgin so i kinda froze and didnt want to push it ( a big mistake, i know.. ) then she started to get more distant and we had a talk and she said she lost attraction for me and asked to be friends. I said "No" and she walked away. It went cold for like 2 - 3 weeks, talked to her yesterday and arranged a meet up at the coffe shop just as friends... so i was wondering is there any chance i could get her to like me again ? and what should i do ?

there is a chance.. but yea that is a mistake.. when you don't have sex with the girl when it's appropriate she will be so cold the next time you wanna hangout.... i don't know y it's like that, but it is... but there is a chance with this girl but it's gonna take work.... If i were you i would just next the girl.. and move on.. if you really wanna bang this girl what i would do is plan a time where you know your gonna see her... for example if you know she goes to a coffee shop at a certain time.. that's perfect..go to the coffee shop with a girl whose hotter,(hand in hand) she will get jealous, and when she gets jealous she will backward rationalize that into thinking she must be into you, , make sure she clearly see's you with this hotter girl.. dont even pay attention to her while at the coffee shop, if you feel her look at you more then twice ,,, your in... wait the entire day and send her a text the next day.. a simple hi should do... she will be attracted to you when you send that hi.. when she asks who that girl is .. tell her it is a girl your dating...after that you should be able to chill with her and bang.

So fucking true, she went cold after that. It was harder to setup meetings and she was harder to kiss and always had a excuse to leave early. I knew she began to lose interest but did not know how to recover, even worse i started to like her so things got even harder. But im meeting her next monday so we´ll see how it goes... what if i bang one of her best friends, could that be an option or will she just hate me? I know i should move on but i really dont want to give up this girl, we clicked. I liked the idea with make her jealous with a hotter girl, or could i also use my ex? She knows im meeting other girls and has options.

as long as the girl is as hot as her and she doesnt know the girl.. i wouldnt do anyone she kow cause that's just a messy situation... and plus you dont want her to think you are having sex with the girl, just dating... she just needs to know you have other woman in your life, that's all it takes to trigger that jealousy feeling in a girl

Thank you for the advice, i will for sure try to do that. If it all fails i still wanna do her friend thought (shes fucking hot) but i guess i first gonna meet her and find out if she is still interested, throw a few tests at her, reading body language etc.

Well i decided not to meet up with her, we have texted a lil the last 3 days. And yesterday it was this festival in town so i knew i bumped into her so the first time earlier on the day she tried to avoid me so i just smiled and said hi, later i was at this camp drinking with some friends and she came down so we ended up talking for a bit, did lots of escelation and she didnt seem to mind. She didnt drink btw. Then she left and 10 minutes later i left. Bumped into her again and we talked for 1 hour or 2 idk she started to give me iois. Then an hour later i found this hot chick, not from town HB8,5 i walked with her, held around and bumped into her and her friend again. I think she got jealous as fuck because i first ignored her, chatting with the HB and a friend of mine then i asked her where she was going and she said "im going home" and walked fast away. So im almost certain she is interested again