Ok so ive known this girl for like 2 years , she went to same college as me , we've kissed like twice but nothing more, lost contact for a while and then she started chatting to me on facebook and stuff again recently , things were getting heated.. i mean very heated (she said she would blow me basically).. I KNOW I KNOW your wondering why i didnt get up off my ass and run over to her place.. she lives 2 hours away driving and it was like 3am. So this is a couple of nights later now and we've been chatting on facebook ever since, but she seems to be backing the fuck down.. (can i curse on here? ah who cares) its my birthday on wednesday and i was hoping to have some fun! i asked her what she was giving me with a winky face and she said something stupid then said "i think im gonna go to sleep".... this is seriously annoying me... is she playing hard to get all of a sudden? because i hate fuckin games besides ours!

My guess is that you over-talked and let the attraction die. In this phase you need to keep your interactions relatively short but loaded with fun and sexual tension - this means no sitting talking for hours on Facebook or constant texting.

Remember at this point less is more!

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