cool, heres the deal- this stalker girl whos like an 8 really liked me and we talked and shiz...BUT mostly it was over fb and text...but bcuz of my exams and bcuz i was busy as FUDGE i kinda kept it only between txt...later she had exams too and got rlly awkward between us, ran out of things to say, talked MUCH less and i guess reached an expiration date LOL

AFTER i kinda started things again, was more flirty and got intouch with her emotions...BUT AGAIN it was all over text... soo i TRIED geting her out in person but still no face 2 face:( even tho we had soo many late night convos and have a solid rapport i have no clue why she just bails out:( she even asked me out to see a movie but never acc set a day, soo recently i caught her free all day and asked her wether she wants to meetup,,(had a nice funny convo b4 asking) and guess what:DD the nxt thing i know i get dead air for the rest of the day :PP

The thing i need help with... Should i act kinda rough and say sumfin like "" if you dont want to meet up you could have just told me youre busy but dont ignore me""
OR
be more passive and say things like""dont worry about it!!;) evs is kool""((if she sais sorry)) if she doesnt id pretend that she never ignored me and b all cherrful and shit:D

AND also what is the best way to stop having a text relationship and have one face to face---- If i try and loossen up the texts to like 5 a day then things would drift off again(get awks like during the exams)and if i carry on being fun over texts all the time(keep talking the way i did:PP) then shed get used to it and not worry about seeing each other literally:(

btw weve had over a thousand texts in the past three weeks:D Rapport!

CHEERS!:D

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Hmm maybe thats the problem. Building TOO much rapport will get you friend zoned.

It just seems like she is being flakey man. I honestly wouldnt put to much thought into it. Give it another go with her and if nothing comes of it keep it moving and get out there and meet other chicks.

it sounds like you build comfort with her(maybe to much) sounds like she is just being flakey or she is extremely busy.

Have the abundance mentality and keep it moving.

Sluggler

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Ahh ok, never thought of it that way before but definitely sounds fair:)

Right:) aprecciate your advice man:D

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